By BF is in another country. He went 1 years before and will come back after another year. When we were together he has has given me very few things as gifts (almost no). And he is shorter than me. Thiner than me.
Recently I feel a boy in my class is interested in me.He always talks with me, spents time with me. He is not like my BF. He is really active than my BF. Taller than me. Fashionable.
And I am 5 yeras younger than my BF.
Is tyhe new boy really interested in me?. What should I do?.
2006-08-30 20:05:37 · 12 answers · asked by masha_nw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds to me like you are basing the majority of your feelings on material things - looks, gifts, etc which is a shame. Who are they on the inside?? That is what truly matters. I mean your bf's height didn't bother you enough to not have him as your bf but now that you found this other guy - you are finding or mentioning all of these things about your bf that were okay for you before.
If you want to date someone else, that is your right. It is also your right to tell your bf that you don't want to be exclusive anymore and that you want to date other people since he is away right now. That is ok too - just let him know before you do anything. Cheating on someone is basically the worst thing you can do to someone - it stays with them forever and makes all of their future relationships very hard because they lost their trust in people.
I would do whatever it is that you want to do - but just let him know either way that you want to break up or that you want to see other people during this time. Just because this new guys is more fashionable and taller does not mean he is more on the inside - the inside is what never goes away and that is what you should really love a person for - not all of this material stuff. You are young though and don't see that yet which I understand but just know that in life, if you always judge a book by its' cover and not by what is on the inside that you will end up not very happy. It kind of sounds like you consider both but more so the material - and the apperance. And think about it - maybe you just miss your bf and are lonely and want someone to fill that void. Maybe you are coming up with all these things your bf isn't just to give you an excuse to be with someone else. But whatever it is - just be considerate and deal with that - your bf before moving on with this new guy or anyone else. A relationship is all about trust and if you don't have that - you don't have anything.
It sounds to me like you already made your decision and I would never want to be the person who was thought about like that - meaning that my bf was even thinking like this. So - be fair to him and to you and let him know - then do what you would like.
:o)
2006-08-30 20:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how serious were you with your bf? if you made a commitment to wait for him,(even though you got few gifts) you should think about this very carefully. If all that matters are looks and gifts, well then go with the new guy because you are not worth coming back too anyway.
2006-08-31 03:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the other guy really is your boyfriend then you need to call it quits with him first before you do ANYTHING else.
It is tough having a BF that is a GI or gone but you have to cut him loose if you are wanting to try another relationship with this new guy.
It is the only fair thing to do for all parties involved.
2006-08-31 03:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Milisa G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act as a normal girl, Check whom you like most (that can be measured by how long you are feeling good about yourself after meeting any of those guy). go for the one whom you are feeling good long time. Just forget about their look and other's opinions and all.
Here you are the Queen having two of them to choose. Do it for yourself and
"There are no best guides in the world to advise any personal problem other than the same person"
Select good and Enjoy yourself.
: )
2006-08-31 04:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Zeeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should end the relationship with ur current boyfriend for the mere fact that long distance relationships rarely work. Wether u choose to persue a relationship with this other boy is entirely up to u! Follow ur own heart!
2006-08-31 03:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray my dear...if your bf loves you do you want to hurt him?
Try not to do it by yourself, for a girl it is very important to know how to live, don't you want to wait for him?
How can you know if the new boy is interested...and what do you mean by that? Think and pray, pray and think!
2006-08-31 03:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you want a man that you can see every day and you don't care that much for your current b/f then go for it. But, you should let your b/f know before you get with the new hottie:)
2006-08-31 03:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kristina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever feels right for you. You have to decide. Do you love your bf?
2006-08-31 03:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a girl, right?
2006-08-31 03:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by bobmartin333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose
2006-08-31 03:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋