I had asked a question about this guy who is the touchy-feely sort of person, and according to some of the answers I got, I kinda figured that he likes me, by the way he hugs me and rubs my shoulders, and plays with my hair. So I would really like to have this person in my life on a boyfriend/girlfriend basis, but he already has a girlfriend, What should I do about this? I'm not the type to ruin relationships, but I think i'm in love with him. And for the record, he has been fighting with his girlfriend quite often. (She even slept with his best friend!!) Any advice on how to go abouts this thing, or perhaps you might know what is going through his mind????
2006-08-30 20:20:57 · 28 answers · asked by stargazer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take one giant step backwards from this man. He is using you and trying to set you up as his next possible girlfriend if and when his current relationship ends. You must not become involved. Even when his relationship ends, don't rush into a relationship with him because you will only be a temporary substitute until he finds someone else's shoulders to rub, someone else's hair to play with, and someone else to hug.
2006-08-30 20:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,unless you saw his girlfriend in that
bed with his best friend,then what you are
hearing and telling is gossip!!!
How would you like to be his girlfriend,the
one he's suppose to be with now?
maybe you'll get to taste what it's like on her
side of the yard? When you see what he's all
about,I hope you come out of this alot smarter
for it!!! He's with this girl for a big reason,and
I wouldn't try to mess with that if I were you,
but whatever you do,you will learn a huge
lesson from it no matter what happens.
Tred carefully!
2006-08-30 20:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to insult or offend you.
But when a guy gets cheated on, which you state that he has been, guys sometimes look to even the score.
It's not so hard to forgive a girlfriend for cheating if you even the table up so to speak.
If I were you, I wouldn't dismiss the possiblity that he is seeking revenge sex.
2006-08-30 20:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by d h 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All men, especially married, will tell u they r having problems with their wife/gf when they like u, unfortunatly it ends there most of the time. they just like u... love the other person...dont judge the other gal, she's just a victim.
Advice: dont push him, dont get ur hopes high. let him sort out his issues and make a decision. remember, he cud still do the same 2 u wen u go out...
2006-08-30 20:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you thinking he is innocent in their fighting? There is evidence that he is a cheater, do you really want that quality in a boyfriend? If he would flirt with you when he has a girlfriend, he would flirt with other girls if he was your boyfriend. Let this one go, he is not worth it just because he is showing you attention.
2006-08-30 20:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by kimberly b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, i really dont know which part of the world you belong to but in case u interested in realistic advice, u may email at lawyer_rajiv@yahoo.com. But do remember to give all the facts, clearly to have a concrete advice
2006-08-30 20:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by lawyer_rajiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frequently there is not something incorrect with having many guy acquaintances. therefore notwithstanding,it feels like your female friend is general with a thanks to take earnings of your emotions. i ought to move on. you ought to signify that you both see human beings. that ought to provide help to hit upon someone that you may have self assurance. That way you'll sense free devoid of the consistent considered her wandering eyes. it must be troublesome at first, notwithstanding it is going to all exercising person-friendly for the ideal.
2016-11-23 15:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is devastsing for your love to sleep with a bestfriemd, i bet. also very bad when you let yourself fall in love with someone whose taken. however we don't know if it's meant to all be this way. this is not easy. i would be not too happy too find out that he plays like that with other girls or all other girls. don't rush in and don't let your feelings be known yet. you might fall into a trap he has set to make his girlfriend want him more...
2006-08-30 20:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by lee f 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you said you won't ruin his relationship. And that he had a fight with his GF... So let it go normally.. when he realise that she doesn't deserve him then he would break up with her...
If he really likes you he must come to you then.
2006-08-30 20:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Eve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... yeah... He's fighting with his girlfriend. Wait your turn. Trust me it's a recipe for disaster. If it's meant to be than it's not forced it happens naturally.
2006-08-30 20:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by UN_POQUITO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋