I am a little shy and I want to make the night the very best memory for my husband. I am thinking about doing a little strip tease on our wedding night. Do you think this is appropriate or would this be moving too fast? I would need stripper lessons too.... never stripped before, or had sex with my husband to be. What should I do?
2006-08-30 20:13:59 · 23 answers · asked by EDNA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Why not just make your wedding night a little more special.. get a nice, high class hotel room with a huge bath tub.. have candles all around the room and rose petals all over the floor, the bed - As well in the bath room - have candles, rose petals inside. Some wine, soft music and just enjoy taken a wonderful relaxing bath together and allow nature takes it course.
My husband did this for me when we were in Jamaica in November (During his RnR from deployment, US Army).. It was the most romantic thing and it still a huge memory for me. After the bath, maybe get a beautiful piece of lingerie (Victoria Secrets has amazing collection for wedding nights) and simply just enjoy being together. Congrats on getting married and wishing you many happiness.
PS - the stripping I would wait until the following night .. Carmen Electra has a stripping dvd and amazon.com has several dvds to teach you how to do it. When you are really good at it, then eventually get the pole.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-08-30 20:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will not be perfect if you try too hard, just allow things to happen naturally. I think the strip tease would be a huge mistake, especially since you are not sexually experienced, you'll just feel daft and nervous. Remember that your wedding day is just the start of a lifetime journey , as you get to know each others bodies things will improve dramatically. You may find that your wedding night is not as you expect as you will probably both be very tired. Good luck with everything.
2006-08-31 01:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing to do is to NOT put a lot of expectations on the night. You will both be tired and nervous. If you put too many expectations on the night, you will just end up dissapointed because something is not going to go as you'd planned. Just let things flow naturally, and the night will be beautiful. Save the strip teases for later in your marriage when you gain more confidence in your sexuality and for when you need to spice things up a bit.
2006-08-31 02:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it on your first night. If you haven't had sex with him till then.
Your husband will be wondering where you learned to do that. If you tell him you took lessons so you could please him he will wonder is there anything else you might have took lessons for.
First night is not a night to put questions into his head. Make love and enjoy each other. Strip tease can happen later on. But don't hit him with that the first night. Don't want any questions to be popping up at that time.
Enjoy each other and love each other.
2006-08-30 20:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are going over board. Just go with the flow on the first night and the honeymoon with cute outfits. Later on...take the lessons and do that for him when he gets home from work. He will be to overwhelmed if you do that on the first night. Besides you can't get out of your wedding dress alone....
2006-08-30 23:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what comes natural. Dont try to force the issue or anything. On Our wedding night, we ordered Pizza (delivered to our hotel room, of course), Watched a movie and then got in the hotub....ill let you imagine the rest... lol.....
My point is , just be casual about it. Being uptight and trying to do a striptease at this point might just add tension to a already stressful day .Realx, Calm down from the Wedding, ...dont worry....yall have a good time :)
2006-08-30 20:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Firesoul 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make love to your husband on your wedding night, don't f**k him. Plus on a more realistic note, if you start out with that big of a bang, he might always expect that, and that is a lot to live up to. Surprise him with that once the sex gets boring!!
2006-08-30 20:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've never had sex with your future husband, stripping for him won't be necessary. You can leave that for when the honeymoon period is starting to wear off.
2006-08-30 20:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely yourself. If u try to titilate him n then hv sex..HE WILL KNOW that u took effort and really want something ot of this night...ths will put your husband to think.
Instead be your sexy self and show him your love with your eyes and you will se how NATURALLY titilating-exciting-memorable and fantastic will this night be. He will finaly know tht the one he loves is in his bed and they can final bond in a way he hasn't ever bonded with a loved one.
2006-08-30 20:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remeber that life is like a movie. Things will happen that aren't going to be perfect. Love making is a beautiful thing... so RELAX and be HAPPY.
2006-08-30 20:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by ElectroMagneticLight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋