I was married 28 years, raised 3 sons, my husband didn't want me to work, so I have no work experience & can't get a job. I have no car & live out in the country so I have no way to get to work if I could get a job. I'm engaged to a man who totally controls me & keeps me away from my family. I'm more dependant on him than when I was married, at least I had a car after the divorce, till I rolled it 3 times on the way to my fiancee's house a year ago. I told him to let me off the phone so I could drive-he heard the wreck! He has money, I'm wearing a 2ct diamond ring. If I break off the engagement I give up having plenty of money, a Mercedes convertable to drive, big house w/pool, & I won't have to work, but I can't see my children or the rest of my family & can't go anywhere w/o his consent, even to WalMart! He escorts me everywhere! If I break off the engagement I will have my freedom, but how will I live w/no car & no job. I thought I loved him, but didn't know him yet. What do I do?
2006-08-30
21:18:11
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Marriage & Divorce