i'm trying to not care alot about what i look like, well i mean im trying not to obsess over my looks, but im having trouble with it, do you care alot about your looks and if no, how do you not care?
2006-08-30 21:00:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't want to care, then you just have to become more comfortable with who you are. It's all about self-esteem. You have to be able to say to yourself, I can wear this and I don't care what anyone else says because this is who I am.
2006-08-30 21:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God never forgets to shower every gal with some or the other attraction in her...
It is not only look that matter, (though this is the prime and first criteria to get attracted by her) but there are many other things which might be which might be attractive in you. All you need to do is to explore what is most attractive in you and use it. I can not count them all but for example i can say your breasts, your voice quality, your hair quality, sometime your smile, sometime your nature, sometime your command over language, sometime your intellect, sometime your sense of humar, sometime your ability to make a guy hot by your juicy talk HUNDRED of qualities we can cite.. you need to find out which do you possess.
NEVER be frustrated by your look.
2006-08-31 04:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you mention obsession over your looks can be problematic. Everyone like to feel good about themselves, unless they are on drugs or something, but careing about your looks is natural, but appreciating who you are is most important.
2006-08-31 04:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me a picture of you and i will give you an honest answer
it is important to look your best, but to try to be something you are not is impossible. something is beautiful about every person on this earth. you must be a beautiful person.
try to focus on being the best you can be in every way and you will be a happier person.
lots of luck and enjoy your life
2006-08-31 05:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Douglas69sU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can care about and take pride in your looks, but not be obsessive about it. Once you're dressed and made up, leave it alone.
2006-08-31 04:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i care but I'm not obsessed about the way i look.I'm not perfect and i don't look like a Hollywood star,and I'm not trying to look like one.i take care of myself and I'm trying to like my look and feel comfortable with the way i am.
2006-08-31 04:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Darkness & sorrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE PUT UP A QUESTION IS PROOF ENOUGH THAT THIS ISSUE IS DRIVING YOU UP THE WALL.
YOU NEED TO FIRST DESCRIBE WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT AS AN IDEAL LOOK FOR YOUR SELF. THEN WORK TOWARDS IT. ON THE OTHER HAND IF YOU ARE SATISFIED WITH YOUR LOOKS, ENJOY OTHER BOUNTIES OF LIFE IN HAWAII.....................
2006-08-31 04:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sarang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I haven't yet tried this out. Anyway morning and evening meditation for 1 hour each will get better answer for your question.
2006-08-31 04:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by vjkiran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that u are not trying to b arrogant. good, very good. just b satisfied of ur luks, and start being proud on the other qualities u have.
2006-08-31 04:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy who you are and do not try to change what God gave you.
Feel like chatting- i am at deon.smit@24-7online.co.za
Hope to hear from you soon.
2006-08-31 04:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋