For example, one time I started arguing with my on-off bf, and it got to the point where I followed him upstairs and yelled at him. In a fit of rage, he pushed me onto the bed, and then quickly yelled "I WAS ALWAYS A LONER AND I DONT WANT TO HURT YOU. I DONT NEED A WOMAN!" He stormed out of the house and went for a walk.
A little bit later he comes up and apologizes. Meanwhile I am shocked, but I resume watching the telly. When I realize he is walking up the stairs to talk to me, I pretend to be emotional and sad. I am snickering on the inside and rather enjoying this. So, yes, I milk it for what it's worthby saying "how can I ever trust him again? etc/ etc/"
One time, he was giving me a piggyback ride and my head slams into the top of the door, because he's 6'4". I start crying and he comes to hug me. I yell: GET THE **** AWAY FGROM ME ASSHOLE! Then he gets upset and starts beating his head against the wall, very, very hardly. I stop crying and I go "what the **** are you doing?"
2006-08-30 21:09:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Then we get into physical fights, (well not for reals as he is much bigger than me) where I end up on the floor because he has pushed me down there. I enjoyed it to be honest..
is something wrong with me?
2006-08-30 21:10:37 · update #1
Onthetreadmill...I am 19; he's 25.
And maybe you are right, but who cares. I enjoy the "passion" and reaction.
2006-08-30 21:16:44 · update #2
It does not sound like you are pissing your bf off. Basically you are acting like any girl would but your bf does not have enough patience to play along with your temperament.
If I am not mistaken, your bf is much older than you are. Give me 10 points if I am right about this. Heh heh.
2006-08-30 21:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by OnTheTreadmill 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes, there is something wrong with you. You seem to get pleasure by manipulating and causing pain to your b/f just because you are able to do it.
Most of us are able to emphasize with other people and not hurt them even though it's possible to do that. We even feel sad if we hurt someone by accident. I think you should get professional help soon to stop this destructive behavior. It will ruin all your relationships for the rest of your life and cause you to be a very unhappy person.
The other reason you should get help is the pain you are causing to others. When I think of the emotional pain you are causing your b/f I feel angry at you. He obviously has large problems in relationships also, and you are frustrating him so much that he's beating his head against a wall!
2006-08-30 21:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Damn....why the hell invite misery? Don't you think for a minute you energies would be much more useful in trying to do things to build people up rather than tear them down?
You keep doing what your doing and you will continue to get what you get....and I predict in the future YOU WILL BE ALONE...people are not as dumb as you seem to want to believe they are, they will only want to keep as far away from your sick twisted attempts for attention...get the attention for doing good selfless things to make the world a better place for everyone! Especially those whom you are suppose to love and want to be loved by...Sick is a light word for the twisted games you are playing sister! I hope you see the light before you are alone in the dark!
2006-08-30 21:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by misssamona2000 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Go seek counselling and some medication like Prozac and Thorazine.
2006-08-30 21:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with u , though u like to play with limits and how far u can push them u'll soon get tired of it and jump to some other psiho-emo game.
2006-08-30 21:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by leed 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hun i think you need a little bit of help. I mean, hell, can't you just get over it and find another way to enjoy yourself, i think you should be asking yourself these questions in a doctors office...
2006-08-30 21:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
misery likes company..........incase you don't understand, because you are a miserable person you feel everyone around you should be miserable. Leave the poor man alone, and get some help.
2006-08-30 21:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by princess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is something wrong!! You play to many head games.
2006-08-30 21:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because this is the highest goal you have set
for yourself,and you want to make sure that
you do it right!!!
2006-08-30 21:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem to enjoy negative attention and reactions.
2006-08-30 21:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by beez 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋