and you miss them already just thinking about it?
2006-08-30 21:28:29 · 14 answers · asked by Meru B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are very close to them and love them dearly.
2006-08-30 21:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by A victim of Pay And Pay 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When we are young, we have no concept that we will grow old too, and that we and others are here but for a short time.
If you start thinking about these things, it simply means you are realising that we are here for a short time, and naturally that your parents will most probably go before you. It appears that you love your parents which is great.
The next wonderfull realisation to think about is that death is not the end. Whatever your religious believes are, there is more after death !!
We will miss those that we love when they die, but we can cope with it.
2006-08-30 21:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means that you are normal! No one wants those they love to die! It takes a chunk of your heart and leaves a hole for a while! And you never truly get over it. Even the unborn ones you remember always. This is why you love them to death and not do hurtful things as you don't know if you will ever see them again when you or they leave!
GOD BLESS
2006-08-30 21:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you love them and they're important to you, and you depend upon them. All perfectly normal. I think it's normal to think about and worry about your parents' deaths, so long as you don't obsess about it. My dad was 76 when he died four years ago, I had some warning that we were going to lose him, and yet I wasn't ready to let him go. I still have my mom, she's 79 now, and she's still very bright and energetic. Even though I've lost my dad, and of course losing my mom's inevitable, I still don't like to think about it. There are things I wish I'd told my dad when he was here, and things I wish I could take back as well. Tell your parents how much they mean to you now, while you still have them. My dad probably knew how much he meant to me, and I know I was important to him, but we left a lot unsaid. I suppose there's never enough time to say and do it all, is there?
2006-08-30 21:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by pvpd73127 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means you love them, but you must stop thinking about when they will eventually be gone, because then you'll be so preoccupied with that that you cant enjoy the present time. Your parents sound really special to you. And remember that theres always so much of them in you!
2006-08-30 21:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by HumbleOpinion 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You're confronting your own mortality and coming to grips with the fact that someday, you will die too. You're thinking about your parents because it's easier to think of death as a natural process involving older people.
It's normal. Congratulations! You are now fully adult.
2006-08-30 21:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by spindoccc 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Everyone dies, hopfully they live a long time, but when you get old you will see the thought of being afraid of dying fades away....
2006-08-30 21:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means you are finally starting to grow up and realize how short life really is.
2006-08-30 21:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be realistic about life and death. The thing to do about it is to let them know how much you love them.
2006-08-30 21:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be with them. It means you really love them and you should let them know that you do.
2006-08-30 21:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋