Family & Relationships - 28 August 2006

Okay, my story is I'm engaged to a great girl, but recently I've been having second thoughts. Reason why is because I just a met a new girl at work who is amazing. We connect perfectly and have tons in common. I really like her, but have yet to act on my feelings. I feel like such a bastard because my fiancee is so excited about this wedding and I feel I'm too young to be getting married and if I just met a new girl I'm crazy about then I shouldn't be getting married. I have a hard time saying this to my fiancee, I don't want to hurt her, but I regret ever asking her to marry me. I did it because I felt pressured to by her and my family. I need advice

2006-08-28 10:03:49 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am an engineering student studying in 2nd year. I am a good student, may b not so goodlookin but not badlooking either. In my 20 years' life I didn't have a single female friend. I don't mean 'girlfriend' in its usual meaning. I don't dream that far. I know girls in my college have an impression abt me that I'm a nice boy but that's all. I don't have a good female friend on this world. Why this happens with me n how can I make good friendship with girls?

2006-08-28 10:03:33 · 21 answers · asked by Puzzled 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

"The great love that I have for you
is gone, and I find my dislike for you
grows every day. When I see you,
I do not even like your face;
the one thing that I want to do is to
look at other girls. I never wanted to
marry you. Our last conversation
was very boring and has not
made me look forward to seeing you again.
You think only of yourself.
If we were married, I know that I would find
life very difficult, and I would have no
pleasure in living with you. I have a heart
to give, but it is not something that
I want to give it to you. No one is more
foolish and selfish than you, and you are not
able to care for me and help me.
I sincerely want you to understand that
I speak the truth. You will do me a favor
if you think this is the end. Do not try
to answer this. Your letters are full of
things that do not interest me. You have no
true love for me. Good-bye! Believe me,
I do not care for you. Please do not think that
I am still your B/F...

2006-08-28 10:03:20 · 3 answers · asked by TRANSLOPEDIA 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i moved in together 12 months ago, into a house around the corner from his ex and 2 children and it has been good because he could see his kids all the time and his ex and him are still good friends but now we have broken up. we still love each other but we know our relationship wont last because we have different expectations of each other, so our break up has been a head choise not a heart choise.
i will see him going past my house all the time to see his kids and it will be really hard because my 2 kids will also see him and they wont understand why he isnt stopping to see us.
should i pack up my kids and move again to avoid the hurt?

2006-08-28 10:03:19 · 8 answers · asked by shandy 1 in Family

Don't just say thier shallow or stupid, give me more.

2006-08-28 10:02:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our dog passed this morning, I did not tell the kids because they were on the way out to school. I will tell them this afternoon. Harley the dog was 5 years old and was poisoned by a rancher w/ coyote bait. I don't want to tell them how he went.
I don't know how to handle this. I know it will be very hard on my 13 year old as it was "his" dog.
Please help

2006-08-28 10:02:56 · 18 answers · asked by stillsmiling 1 in Family

2006-08-28 10:02:54 · 17 answers · asked by moon_gazer532000 2 in Singles & Dating

Just answer without thinking about it too much and in a few minutes let's compare answers and see what really matters for us in our lives ...

Let's dream :-)

Wishing you love and happiness,

Stef. ( http://steflisa.centerblog.net )

2006-08-28 10:02:40 · 26 answers · asked by FVARGAS 2 in Family

Last night I woke up dead of night with the urge to be 'intimate' with my boyfriend and I was so turned on by just touching him (not all sexual either some just like rubbing his hair or chest) that i was literally shaking and about to dry hump him.
I've never been like that before, esp without any stimulation from him!
We have sex on a very regular basis and i'm always satisfied.. so this seems weird to me.

Ever happen to you ladies? or anything close to?

2006-08-28 10:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

I barely know her, there is no possible way we could ever be together so she's chasing another man, and I'm fine with that... but why does it hurt so much?

2006-08-28 10:02:12 · 7 answers · asked by Austin S 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean really romantic, with deep fellings and interested in you

2006-08-28 10:01:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(sorry if anyone has read this-- I didn't get many answers..)
I've been seeing the brother of my close firend for a short time now. We've hung out in group situations for about two months, and recently it got a little more personal with a couple of dinner dates (and awesome smooching!). It's been so great-- he's a really sweet guy, we are mutually interested, and I already know that his family are genuinely good people.
He's returning tomorrow to finish his last year at school, but it's away. I'm staying home for school... This is such a new relationship, SO
What are some good ways to keep this good thing going?? How hard do I try to stay in touch, and in what ways..... any creative Ideas are appreciated!!!!
(I really think I could see myself with this person long-term!!)

2006-08-28 10:01:34 · 3 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 13 and I want to make/get my sister something special for her birthday because this will be her last birthday at home with us since she will go off to college right before her birthday next year. She does what one of thoose silver necklaces with the heart from
Tiffany & Co. , which is like more that $1,000...but I can't afford that! so if anyone has any ideas of whet i can make/get her...please help!!! (o, by the way...her birthday is on September 8th)

2006-08-28 10:01:30 · 4 answers · asked by mackenzieshea245 2 in Family

I'm looking the cute little take out boxes which could put some mints and candy inside.I saw from my friend's wedding year ago. many dfferent colors. i'm just wondering where can I find it and better tell me what's the price.
Thanks

2006-08-28 10:01:20 · 17 answers · asked by Xie L 1 in Weddings

I met a man recently, and i was brought under the impression that he was 6 yrs younger than what he really is! I mean, 40 is far from 34!!! i really liked him, till I found out, and now it feels like i cant trust anything else I've gotten to know about him. i feel deceived!
Guys... why do you lie about your age!

2006-08-28 10:00:27 · 34 answers · asked by bond007snaki 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend who I see most every weekend (we live like 2 1/2 hours apart) is going to be out of town this weekend and I e-maild him and asked if I could see him the weekend he is back. Is that pushy? Been w/ him for about 3 months.

Thank u

2006-08-28 09:59:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay my friend Kym is always pressuring me to have a boyfriend but I don't want one b/c i focuse on my grades. Besides I am not ready now I have had a boyfriend before

2006-08-28 09:59:51 · 25 answers · asked by puggie224 2 in Friends

2006-08-28 09:58:45 · 14 answers · asked by tru_til_da_end 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just moved across the country. I met a guy here a few months ago when I was looking at apartments. He said maybe we could get togeither after I arrived. We e-mailed and talked a couple of times over the summer. I e-mailed him and he came over and hung pictures. We talked and laughed. A week later, I stopped by his work to ask for directions. He is a property manager. (He hugged me in front of other people when I walked in to his office) He asked his assistant to take care of things so he could show me around. We talked and laughed some more(about 45 min.) and he showed me directions on the map. I really want to get to know him better, but I don't want to scare him off. . . I mean, it's not like I want to marry him or anything, but some guys think that is what a girl always wants. It has only been a few days, but do you think he will he call me and ask me out? Should I wait a while then call him and ask him over for dinner? What should I do?

2006-08-28 09:58:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was in a relationship for 12 years , my ex never married me . and he left me for the four time last june of 2005. the nest month i findout he was going out with a woman . who has grandkids . and now he is going to get marry with this person. I always been the mother and the father to my children .even when he was around . but, he is been taking me to family court , asking for Custody or joying custody . i don't have a lawyer , and the kids' lawyer is like more on the father side . the only family i have is my children , and the inviroment where he takes my children is not safe for them . the father's family do drugs , smoke . and my children suffer from asthma . i don't do drugs ,or smoke . i don't even go out . i just be a mom .i am just 30 year old . who was been abuse and still get harrast . by my ex and his people . i just have a partime job . i wish to find out about any free trainin program for single mom to getbetter jobs . i am along and don't have any family suport.

2006-08-28 09:58:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-28 09:58:03 · 10 answers · asked by Hans-wai C 1 in Friends

Okay men this is going to sound VERY strange but think about it. How would you feel if you woke up to your woman having sex with you? While you're VERY tired, think if you barely slept for the last 2 days and have only fallen asleep an hour or so before she woke you up.
Any and all thoughts.

I know this is a little strange

2006-08-28 09:58:01 · 17 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 09:56:55 · 10 answers · asked by linda_gail_45 2 in Friends

So my boyfriend is currently mad at me and refuses to speak to me because I said that there is a theory that since man wrote the Bible, that the Bible is flawed, and that man could introduced his own ideas into the Bible.

Now I was not even saying that I agreed with the "idea" I was just pointing out like some "reasons" that this could be true. He says that i could not have reasons if I did not feel that way. I really do not think it is true, I just have read a lot of things in my life.

He says I was challenging his religion, I just say it was conversation. What do you think?
What should I do?

2006-08-28 09:56:36 · 15 answers · asked by cookies_n_cream0218 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 09:56:22 · 8 answers · asked by war30214602006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i still like my ex bf, im the one who broke up, that was a mistake in may, so anway school started back and he lookes at sometimes, and i saw him in the hall way a few days ago and he smiled and osme girl said he called me a skank in front of his friends then walked away, so i asked him to day and he looked back and smiled at me and his like maybe, and i started to chass him, does it sound like he likes me??

2006-08-28 09:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by Tonya Sizemore 2 in Singles & Dating

...to forget a girl???
It's been two years that he is looking at me with the eyes of love...but we can't talk to each other because of our families. Now I took the decision to call him to try to talk to him about this horrible situation. Problem: I don't feel confident enough and since the last time I saw him was a month ago, I'm scared he got over me.

I really need y'all to help me out!!! I'm lost and don't want to fall in love again. It's been ayaer and a half Im single and I think I will keep it this way. But before, I need to know about his feelings but I'm so scared!! Please help me!!

2006-08-28 09:55:56 · 16 answers · asked by kaïra69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-28 09:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by feedazombie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm so sick of these plastic little mini-skirt wearing pompom waving snots who all of the guys fall for cause they're so beautiful......does personality even matter anymore???? Yeah I have a brain and I use it but that seems to be a turnoff.....why????



And I know not all cheer leaders are snots but all of the ones at my school are.

2006-08-28 09:55:09 · 12 answers · asked by badhair92 2 in Singles & Dating

Can you ask for the wedding ring you gave back (although then you would be a jerk)?

2006-08-28 09:54:55 · 23 answers · asked by C. Menstein 4 in Marriage & Divorce