I am an engineering student studying in 2nd year. I am a good student, may b not so goodlookin but not badlooking either. In my 20 years' life I didn't have a single female friend. I don't mean 'girlfriend' in its usual meaning. I don't dream that far. I know girls in my college have an impression abt me that I'm a nice boy but that's all. I don't have a good female friend on this world. Why this happens with me n how can I make good friendship with girls?
2006-08-28 10:03:33 · 21 answers · asked by Puzzled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
act like your gay,lol. just kidding, I am sorry you do not have a girlfriend, try just talking to girls I know us girls can be difficult, but I also do know engineers do make good money so I am sure once you finish coolege the girls will come around. Nice guys always find good girls, just choose wisley and make sure they do like you for more than your money.
2006-08-28 10:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't sweat that too much. Having a girlfriend isn't all holding hands, good sex, and good conversation. Having a girlfriend means constantly being responsible for someone elses' emotions, giving up most of your free time, and spending a lot of that hard earned party money. Stay single. But if your're absolutely determined in this, give up the wide open nice guy image for something a little more rough and mysterious. Go to clubs. Join different groups (e.g. book clubs, car clubs, church groups, etc..) . Whatever you're into. Even if you don't find the exact girl you're looking for, chances are one of the girls you meet will have a friend that is. Good luck. And a month from now I'll be expecting you to post a question more like "I'm stuck! How do I dump a demanding girlfriend?"
2006-08-28 11:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by Vespr 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dear what you feel is something many guys in this world must be feeling too. Problem is you want a good female freind. Tell me how many girls in this world are really good?
You cant make freindship with anyone. Its a thing that just happens and remember love is the next level...
Wait for the right moment, you sure will find a freind thats good and if you are lucky you might even get a girlfreind!!
2006-08-29 00:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look it's not about money. And if you a good man and a woman cant see that then thats her loss rember and plus to me there are something better out there for you then someone being vein and shallow anout your looks. Make a good friendship with girls by being yourself don't be fake for no one. And plus your young an going to engineering school right now focus on your career and then think about a girl trust me theres no rush.
2006-08-28 10:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by nina j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to meet girls at this stage of your life is to do group activities with other students. Try not to be too eager to talk to the girls - not standoffish, but not overly excited either. Girls at that age get nervous when someone is too outgoing.
Good luck and hang in there. There is someone for everyone.
2006-08-28 10:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by C C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe people don't see the real u. i am guessing that u are very private and tend to stay to yourself. i was antisocial growing up and refused to make friends because i was scared of people kinda. i had to take medication for social anxiety becuase i was very sheltered. u just need to put a smile on your face and try to be social and it is hard becuase i know when u are about to talk to someone u get nervous and your palms start sweating. but just try and see what happens
2006-08-28 10:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, puzzled..
Don't be more puzzled for a girl friend. Finish your engineering course and then go for making good friendships, which may occur at that time.
2006-08-28 21:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by mkm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well bein a gal i think looks dnt really matter to us bt ya strong inteelect n conviction is a must in a guy...i think u shud strt inert=acting more with females..open up yrslf..show them yr trueself and thts possible only when u go extramile to shw what u r...i truly thnk any gal who understands the essence of frenship wud definitely get paaly wid u...
2006-08-28 12:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by ajeta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let you complete the engineering cource the search matrimonial columes of leading papers
2006-08-28 10:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by pkg512 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure,
it,s not that goodlooking is require to get a girlfriend.
the most requirement is good heart.
try to be a best boyfriend then definetly you'll have a girlfriend.
2006-08-28 12:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋