Family & Relationships - 24 August 2006

my mama just got hit by her boyfriend last night and he broke in while we was sleep and I parniod and every time I look in a dark place I see him and I dont no what to do. I no he is in jail but it is just me seeing him in my house in the dark when we didnt let him in just makes me very jumpy and I dont no what to do. I keep looking other places and it like I get scared and Im scared for me and my mamas life and I dont what to do can some one help me am I crazy or becoming crazy bacause I think so




and if anybody makes a smart comment that would be really wrong with the sitution Im in

2006-08-24 05:44:34 · 8 answers · asked by lil chris 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and if i was about to strip nude for bed and my bedroom door is open. What would u do?

2006-08-24 05:44:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seem average size then later that week it seems to have gotten bigger .

2006-08-24 05:43:59 · 24 answers · asked by baglady 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 05:43:57 · 26 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-24 05:43:33 · 6 answers · asked by hckygod15 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I been in a relationship for long now, my boyfriend and i have a baby together he comes over two days aweek. Usually we have intercourse wen he comes over, i almost never say no to him. I'm looking for wart for marriage but he hasent askt the ?. Some one told me today " why pay for it when u can have it for free" is this true???? Will it help speed up the process if I hold off on sex???

2006-08-24 05:43:26 · 6 answers · asked by Twilight 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-24 05:43:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 05:42:24 · 39 answers · asked by single714_luis 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been talking 2 a guy online, and within a month or so he said that by viewing my photo on-line, he has fallen 4 me. He says its because I've shown him that i care about him. I dont really know him 2 feel 2 much 4 him, but i would like 2. I actually believe that unless u know the person in life, is better than falling 4 someone u don't know.

2006-08-24 05:42:11 · 10 answers · asked by alwaystaker 1 in Singles & Dating

He flirts sometimes, but then backsoff. Makes serious eye contact, but then won't even look my way. Treats me the same as others he's known for a while. But can't make small talk with me, but can with them.

2006-08-24 05:41:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know of a way I can bug my fiances home? Must be cheap and undetectable. We are getting married and I want to know for sure that he is not cheating on me when I am frequently out of town.

2006-08-24 05:41:10 · 7 answers · asked by badgoodgirl06 2 in Singles & Dating

interacial couples

2006-08-24 05:41:00 · 20 answers · asked by baglady 1 in Singles & Dating

Just to explain - I've been with my man for 18 months and togther we run a small Hotel. In the winter he likes to travel and this year he is willing to pay most of the costs for me to go with him (prob South Africa & Sri Lanka). However, I've always prided myself on not being a clingy type and think he might enjoy a break on his own (he likes hanging out with his friends and needs some time off to relax, I don't want him to feel like he's dragging me around and putting up with me and my inevitable womanly crises!). On the other hand I know he'd like to show off about the places he knows and I would love to see them. Plus I've agreed the family could stay at New Year, duh!

Should I go and make the most of a free holiday or let him go enjoy himself, appreciate the peace here, see my family for New Year instead and hope he misses me?! One minute I want to go, the other I want to stay and I know if I ask him he'll only say what he thinks I want to hear. HELP!

2006-08-24 05:40:51 · 13 answers · asked by Katie D 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

a month ago me nd my ex bf started talking again nd he told me he still loves me nd wants to be withme but then i day i call him nd he says stop calling me nd hangs up then the next day i call him again nd he says leave me alone so then i keep on calling him nd leaving him messages nd he still dosent answer me nd i dont know y he is doing that i didnt say anything to get him mad or sad what do u think ?

2006-08-24 05:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by meganycash 1 in Singles & Dating

It always astounds me to see how much a woman will take from her man. This is especially true when it come to black women. It seems that we have come to accept everything from a man whether it's infdelity, or tragically, even HIV/AIDS. Why don't we have enough self-worth to ask for and expect only the best from our men? Is it that, underneath our neck-twisting and diva attitude, we really are insecure? Is it the male to female ratio? Why do we always allow the man to keep the ball in his court? I am also curious to hear your responses. Men are welcome to answer as well.

2006-08-24 05:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I give her the confidence that I'm the right guy for her and get her to break off with her bf? I am 100% sure that she likes me. But she wants the best of both worlds.

2006-08-24 05:40:10 · 8 answers · asked by LionAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

well i have a boyfriend but truth is dat i still have feelins 4 my ex here and now wat should i do

2006-08-24 05:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by M$ Q.T P!3 (P.Y.T) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-24 05:39:48 · 12 answers · asked by Cowherd, Jr. 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 05:38:56 · 10 answers · asked by chocolatevanilla 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a man when I travelled,after 2 months, he started to send me e-mails daily; this continue for 2 months and because of work, he flew to my country for a couple days and he dated me for a dinner. This is the first time for us to have such a long face-to-face conversation. After dined, he asked me to go to his hotel room, but I refused because I felt it is quite inappropriate to go his hotel room just after a few hours conversations. During the conversation, he told me he has no girlfriend and he liked me. After that night, we enjoyed a nice weekend. But when he returned home, something change, his e-mails declining, our contacts still keep but I could feel he is getting cool. I think if he contacted me just for sex, he could stop it once he returned home, why he continue to send e-mail and just getting fewer. Because just reserve for next opportunity ? Pls let me know what he is thinking ? He still liked me or not ?

2006-08-24 05:38:54 · 24 answers · asked by kony;-) 1 in Singles & Dating

A man while looking at a photograph said, "Brothers and sisters have I none. That man's father is my father's son." Who was the person in the photograph?

2006-08-24 05:38:51 · 28 answers · asked by cosmic_soda421 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my BF have been together for almost 2 years. He has had durg and alcohol abuse problems in the past and is now clean but he does drink on the weekends still (which i hate but have learned to deal with) we were engaged in dec of 05 and he kicked me out in jan 06. We moved back in together in march of 06 and ever since then we have been so unhappy! we fight constintly and he always has his friends over. he has one friend that i hate he fules every fight we are in and tries to make it bigger so we break up i hate him and my BF loves him we fight about him ALOT. our sex life is amazing we have never had a problem connecting to each other or in bed or loving eachother. He has a really bad temper and he says things that really cut me deep (today he compaired me to his dog ) just really mean things. We have had the normal problems in our relationship and we have some minor trust issues too(the drugs and lying) i feel like im lossing him. its not love we love eachother and want to fixit

2006-08-24 05:38:48 · 7 answers · asked by TEMPTRESS 2 in Singles & Dating

people have all kinds of wierd screen names n i just wanted to find out about others sns n see what they mean.. aka i'm extremely bored n asking dumb questions.. byproduct of boredom..

2006-08-24 05:38:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Get out of your house meet people. Computers are great but not for everything. Get a little human contact

2006-08-24 05:38:33 · 13 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4 in Friends

This girl I know she's married and definitely not gay. But the couple of times I talk to her after we're talking for a while she'll start like fixing her hair. And she'll kind of act so great. Is it because she's thinking I'm not very attractive. And that she's better then me? I haven't really noticed her doing it to others. She seems to always do this when she talks to me?

2006-08-24 05:38:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel like if i took them in they would be taking away from what i can barely give my 3 children. He provides for my kids anyway he can. I dont think we have room for them, i just bought a 3 bedroom house for my kids. what do i do, am i being selfish?

2006-08-24 05:37:58 · 8 answers · asked by Nancy R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

in a relationships it take two,and I feel just me.

2006-08-24 05:37:19 · 20 answers · asked by laboricua1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean im really friendly n stuff love to talk n things but evrytime i talk to a girl who i like they put me into that "friendship zone" as some1 who is just a good FRIEND ..ntn more ...n i mean i would like to b more dan a friend ..so should i change n b a bastard sum1 wearing really low cut pants n boxers protruding out mayb screaming my head off ?? that y i can b more than a friend ? or do u ladies think that a good friend of urs has a good chance to date u ??
i really need to know this n i appreciate ur advise and plz no snappy answers cause im really low in confidence as i got rej. twice already .

2006-08-24 05:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by jaideep b 2 in Singles & Dating

I think he is OK.!!!

2006-08-24 05:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when me an my girlfriend have sex her fanny makes trumping noises is this normal or is there something up with her cause she used to sleep around alot before we got together

2006-08-24 05:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by dave 1 in Singles & Dating