I met a man when I travelled,after 2 months, he started to send me e-mails daily; this continue for 2 months and because of work, he flew to my country for a couple days and he dated me for a dinner. This is the first time for us to have such a long face-to-face conversation. After dined, he asked me to go to his hotel room, but I refused because I felt it is quite inappropriate to go his hotel room just after a few hours conversations. During the conversation, he told me he has no girlfriend and he liked me. After that night, we enjoyed a nice weekend. But when he returned home, something change, his e-mails declining, our contacts still keep but I could feel he is getting cool. I think if he contacted me just for sex, he could stop it once he returned home, why he continue to send e-mail and just getting fewer. Because just reserve for next opportunity ? Pls let me know what he is thinking ? He still liked me or not ?
2006-08-24 05:38:54 · 24 answers · asked by kony;-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He obviously just wanted a piece of ***. Sorry to burst your bubble
2006-08-24 05:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for this answer but i think he probably has someone like you in every place he goes on business.He probably has a gold ring hidden somewhere too.When his e-mails dropped off,thats when they were getting heavy for the one after you.
E-mail him back and ask for his phone # cause you like to hear his voice...if he stalls....beware....if you get his #.it still doesn't mean you are the "only one".For the heck of it.....get a check up..for you know what.....not that expensive and if he DOES have a "one and only",in several cities,I would want to get a "check up".
If you get his phone #,just ask him.....1 night stand or what??You are not a boy toy.Tell him that and listen to his tone,any hesitation,or uhs or hmms....
Hope I can help.Former creep..........bullwinckle2003@yahoo.com
2006-08-24 13:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by bullwinckle2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, he could have stopped talking to you all together. I think he is in it for the sex, but knows you are smart and has layed off a little. He wants to keep the flow going just in case you are still interested in him, and he tries to ask you for sex again.
Watch out for that one, cause if you do go for him, you could get seriously hurt - and that's not even taking in the consideration he's from far away.
2006-08-24 12:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it is just for sex. How can you have a relationship in different countries. He may like you, but it is not likely that anything is going to come from this. If you want to screw him the next time he comes, then keep emailing him. If not, then dont respond.
2006-08-24 12:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like he was out for a piece of foreign tail and you declined. He has probably moved on to other targets. Thank your lucky stars and don't wait for this guy.
2006-08-24 12:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by 45Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be very careful with such a fellow because he is only trying to use and dumb you .to be frank and sincere just mail him and tell him of your acceptance and you will see that he will come back to you .so be vigilant .he only want to use you as sex machine and not genuine love .bye
2006-08-24 12:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by fine boy looking sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you might be a smart girl to realize since the beginning of time that he just wants to have sex, and then leave you, but you didn't give your ages or, his age. why you was traveling? or what country your from or where hes from (different cultures), but its safe to say that if he wanted you he wouldn't have a problem coming to see you again or you go see him again. and his communication wouldn't have quit from the beginning..
2006-08-24 12:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he's probably married and was just looking to get some fresh booty. Don't pay any attention to him. Reject his emails if you want to. Or just don't meet him again. A dinner date is not a marriage!
2006-08-24 12:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably was hoping to have sex with you after treating you to dinner. The reason he's still staying in touch with you is that he hopes maybe, if there's another chance, you'll say "Yes".
2006-08-24 12:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted to get laid. He probably thinks that if he keeps talking to you every now a then he'll get some again when he comes here next.
2006-08-24 12:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by camryn010703 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋