i mean im really friendly n stuff love to talk n things but evrytime i talk to a girl who i like they put me into that "friendship zone" as some1 who is just a good FRIEND ..ntn more ...n i mean i would like to b more dan a friend ..so should i change n b a bastard sum1 wearing really low cut pants n boxers protruding out mayb screaming my head off ?? that y i can b more than a friend ? or do u ladies think that a good friend of urs has a good chance to date u ??
i really need to know this n i appreciate ur advise and plz no snappy answers cause im really low in confidence as i got rej. twice already .
2006-08-24 05:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by jaideep b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
young girls want excitement and that's the type they go for. As they grow older they'll start to appreciate your type more. Be patient.
2006-08-24 05:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change but don't be in a hurry either. Girls that are young may not appreciate you as much as when you are like 20 to 24 then you have the best chance of landing who you are looking for now. Plus, if you are handsome and nice double wammy man a real woman will love you for who you are. I can tell you from experience though don't be a p+ssy, Be nice and confident and friendly but for example when she says where do you wanna go eat tonight DO NOT SAY i don't know like a little boy. That is the confident part...you still want to be a man just don't be a di=k head... there are a few types of men there is the construction worker type that are bad *** boys who know what they want think women are nags and don't give a sh+t about themselves are anyone for that matter then there are the shemales or the type I told you not to be who can't ever make a critical decision and practically have the woman making all their decisions like they need a mommy instead or a wife. Then there is the guy in between and that is the one you should strive to be... even if one girl does not appreciate you ONE WILL... be decisive and know what you want but have the UTMOST respect for a woman her needs what she likes dislikes and what her body desires...do your research and let an older woman teach you a few things about what women like and read read read books that are about women.... Anything else email me!!
2006-08-24 13:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by reggiethecokegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young.......... and I am here to tell you that you are perfect the way you are....... yes! I said perfect. Yes, a good guy friend does have a chance being with me, and alot of other girls I know are and do feel the same way. I see you saying you have been rejected twice already........ that won't keep happening. I will tell you this though, have your friends that are girls and go get yourself a date... someone that you know you can't go wrong with, don't have a relationship just a date......... and if you don't want to do that.......... then just talk about dates you are on that your not. Your friends will get jelouse and will see the GOOD thing you are and you will get better results........... blessed be.
2006-08-24 12:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dont have to change anything for anyone.you are who you are ok!and girlsdo apriciate thefriendlly type but if you want the girl to be more than a friend you kind of have to have to flirt and kind of drop some hints that you want to be more than friends!!!dont be shy when you like the girls,ou have to be the opposite you have to let her know thast you pricciate her and have fealings for her without using words just the way you act around her will do fine!!!good luck.wb if you need anythin else,im always happy to listen
2006-08-24 12:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by victoria k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gals like guyz wit moves!!!!trust me on det 1....if u don bliv me..tink of de movie..U GOT SERVED!!!
do u bliv me now??no moves..ur out(moves,moves moves)
2006-08-24 12:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by nkedama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋