in a relationships it take two,and I feel just me.
2006-08-24 05:37:19 · 20 answers · asked by laboricua1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then don't marry him! Good grief did women forget how to think today?
2006-08-24 05:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you cannot marry him. If you are not sure, and he says he loves you, does he show you? Do you get along with each other? Or are you always fighting about something? It sure doesn't seem like you are on cloud-9. Give it more time, or why don't you take a break from each other, for 6 months, and see how you each feel then. If you think he does not love you, then you can't get married now. A little time away from each other, should tell you, if you still love him, and he still loves you. It's better not to get married now, and have to go through a divorce, later. You can get married anytime, so give it a rest for awhile..Good Luck..
2006-08-24 05:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships don't work if there is any doubt. Don't get married until you know for sure that the love is mutual. My guess is that he does love you, why else would he marry you? Maybe he has a hard time expressing himself.
2006-08-24 05:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, don't marry him if you are unsure about if he loves you. A relationship is easier to get out of than a divorce. If you have to ask the question "why should I marry him" don't do it (not now wait till you are sure).
2006-08-24 05:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are coming her to ask if you should Marry him then you have already answered your question. There should be no doubt in your mind if he loves you or not if there is then you are not ready to Marry this guy
2006-08-24 05:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you marry him???? if you are not getting what you need from him why don't you just move on? you marry him just to say what? I's married now???i don't think so.. learn how important you are and someone who makes you happy as well as you making them happy is a right you and everyone deserves. being pleased is not selfish,being treated like s*** is.
2006-08-24 05:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engagement is a perfect time to hash all these things out. Before you decide though talk to him tel him how you feel. Remeber I said talk in a non defensive tone that this is just how you feel. if you still feel it is just you don't marry him.
2006-08-24 05:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by wondertwins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Than you need to tell him that. And you might not like the response, but then you at least have some closure to move on. But on the other hand you might be suprised, maybe you're just looking into it too much.
2006-08-24 05:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by rushorty417 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't feel his love, then its no need for you to marry him. When its real you will know it. You won't have to ask any questions.
2006-08-24 05:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel its just you...then move on...there are to many men out there to be on the side of the fence with one relationship....Go out and venture dont get stuck with someone who you dont know if he loves you or not.....thats just stupid
2006-08-24 05:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by seadew22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋