Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

P. Jon Butt . Last known address, Poland, where he was teaching
english. Had family in Birmingham. Lost his address a few years back. Would like to catch up with him.

2006-08-23 02:49:24 · 6 answers · asked by woodlandbop 1 in Friends

essential

2006-08-23 02:48:56 · 3 answers · asked by bandhu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been married for only 1 month now and I have been real suspicious about her "friend." This friend is a dance instructor that she started working with to learn to dance for the wedding. Since then she has gotten really close with him and very distant from me. She's even gone to the point of saying she doesn't think she wants to be married, but cannot give me a reason why. She says that its nothing that I did. She is starting to lie about every little thing like questionable phone calls on our phone bill. She just finally admitted to me that she kissed him, but swears it only happened one time. Do I believe her? Could she be hiding bigger things from me like cheating?

2006-08-23 02:48:54 · 16 answers · asked by blindedbylies 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you like my hair?

2006-08-23 02:48:37 · 11 answers · asked by Donald Trump $$ 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I divorced recently after a ten year marriage - one I thought could be saved with some conselling. He decided to have an affair and is now moving in with this girl. My husband lied, cheated, deceived. His is a pig. The problem I have is that I am a very forgiving person - I very rarely hold grudges. As a result, I get hurt. I have to deal with my ex because we have an 8 year old son. How do I let my ex know that his actions were wrong and this is not something that I will likely forget soon? I don't want to be a bitter ex wife - I am moving on and dealing with my reality as best I can. However, I do not want him to think that what he did was okay just because I talk to him normally about our son. He likes his life to be in order and he will think that if I am okay with everything then he obviously made the right choices. He treated me like garbage - with zero respect. I want him to not forget that - any ideas on how I do this?

2006-08-23 02:48:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have loved him for so long and I know I always will. He tells me the same thing. If only he wasn't so selfish. He seems to have always thought about his neeeds instead of mine. I know he loves me though. I want him back and think about him all of the time..... He is the best lover I have ever had and their is noone that can take his place in this department because, I'm still in love with him. Help! Help! hELP! ME PLEASE THANKS hE IS MY FAMILY.

2006-08-23 02:48:12 · 9 answers · asked by jeannny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm not racist alright, how are asian girlfriends? i have no idea because all of my bros ex were latinas or half white. so that i will know how to act around her. she's quiet.

2006-08-23 02:48:11 · 25 answers · asked by thaleeya 2 in Singles & Dating

i am getting married soon and me and my fiance like country music and want country songs sung at the wedding. we want the first song to be sung after our vows and one after we exchange rings. whats 2 good songs?

2006-08-23 02:47:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I don't understand why you people think that just beacause your husband or wife knows and lets you do it, that it's okay to sleep with others. What is the difference if your cheating behind their back you are still having sex with others.Once a cheater always a cheater is not true if you are happy you should not have to sleep with others. If my husband truely loved me he wouldn't ask that of me or be okay that I did it. Just curious

2006-08-23 02:47:22 · 23 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 02:46:16 · 12 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my partner for 4 years and we have a 3 year old son. My partner is controlling, selfish, cold hearted and thinks everything i do is wrong. Im sick of it all i have asked him to get couselling but he won't. so think i want to leave. i know i can provide a better life for my son and i if i do so. But i just cant seem to do it. I get so scared and sick when i think about it. even though i know i can go stay with my mother. i have suffered from anxciety in the past. and i know there will many people i will disappoint by leaving. Any advice. I don't think i can live like this for the rest of my life.

2006-08-23 02:46:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To improve myself it is very essential.

2006-08-23 02:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by bandhu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

While looking at questions on here, It seems that most responses are grouped by ages.

Like, should I leave a marrage of 15yrs: Older = work on it, Younger = divorce with no work on it.

Maybe the persons age should also be on their sn so you kknow what experence they have for advice...

just a though..

2006-08-23 02:45:17 · 11 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crystal heart hanging in a window. When the prism's reflect colors, think of all the love my son has given me.
What is your keepsake?

2006-08-23 02:45:00 · 16 answers · asked by laughsall 4 in Family

I find it really hard to make friends cause im shy and not open in front of new people....im always thinking about stuff like my brain never shuts down but people think i look angry when im thinking and they don't think I wanna be friends and stuff!!! I had no idea this was happening till a while ago but now I feel like an idiot and I dont know how to fix the situation......can u give me ideas on how to meet new people?

2006-08-23 02:44:19 · 17 answers · asked by volllballgirl 3 in Friends

2006-08-23 02:44:01 · 5 answers · asked by ConStar 1 in Singles & Dating

wot would you do with out us woman now no bullshit unless you love to masterbate

2006-08-23 02:43:35 · 70 answers · asked by bigboobs1@btinternet.com 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you suggest i have already brought som purfume and bath bombs because i thought it was pretty universal but did i do the rigt thing?

2006-08-23 02:43:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old are they when you begin to give them?

2006-08-23 02:43:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Kevorkian? 10 points

2006-08-23 02:42:48 · 3 answers · asked by dj iOnic 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in this mystery ?

2006-08-23 02:42:43 · 11 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Weddings

I filed for divorce at the beginning of this month, something I should have done a long time ago. Never again do I want to be with this horrible individual. I am simply waiting now on the final hearing date to be set. Through myspace.com I found a male college friend who I have not seen in 10 years. I found him AFTER I had already decided to file for divorce. He has nothing to do with my reasons for ending my marraige. We had been close back in college but never intimate. We have talked on the phone several times and communicated by email a bunch. We seem to have reconnected and there is a potential for a great relationship in the future. Obviously, I am not in a position to settle down nor do I want to settle down right now. But I want to know if legally this means I am cheating. We haven't even seen each other in person yet but I have a strong feeling that if we did there would be some "chemistry" there. Give me some advice on what you think about my situation. Thanks.

2006-08-23 02:41:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am only 12 and my quince is in about 3 years. but i want to know what i should plan and look for. i was born in june, what are the colors for june? what color dress should i and the 7 girls wear? whats the youngest age for one of the 7 girls to be? what aboutthe youngest for the boys? is there a special place to get my dress at? where should it be at? decorations? theme?music? any more?

2006-08-23 02:41:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend went on vacation in the US for a month. He asked me to house-sit. Got access to everything. On his computer, I discovered hundreds of porn images - of him and his past girlfriends over the years, and his past months' escapades with MARRIED women that I know personally.

I also discovered 3 unused condom packets in his kitchen cabinet. Problem is, we don't even have sex at all.

This is our second chance and I'm discovering more crappy things about him each day. His reason is that I should put up with it, and that dating an older man comes with a long history of past girlfriends.

My male bestfriend told me to leave my bf. He thinks that my bf will ruin and stop me from becoming what I want to be in the future because of all the crap I'm putting up with. My boyfriend has always been controlling and this relationship was always about him and not "us." He doesn't call me his girlfriend in front of his female friends too.

How will I ditch this immoral, inconsiderate pervert?

2006-08-23 02:39:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 02:39:40 · 26 answers · asked by desperate_admirer 2 in Singles & Dating

I have always wonder if guys really like you for what you look like, or if they really like you for whats inside. What do you consider true beauty? Details please. (dont lie)

2006-08-23 02:39:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love to have sex and enjoy it(and ask thier husband for it )?

2006-08-23 02:39:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have just recently split up with my boyfriend and he dumped me over text..I was living with him@his mums house, but now I had no choice but to move into his best mates place. He wont talk to me, hasnt even explained why he got rid of me. Has just said he needed time on his own. All his friends know why but why wont he talk to me?Do you think he has a guilt trip going on?And what do I do about talking to him, how do I get round it-as its also splitting the group of friends up as he wont go anywhere I go with his mates?Help ta guys

2006-08-23 02:38:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 02:38:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anna S 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy a couple of months ago and we started dating, everything was cool. He was so sweet, we had real nice times on our dates, he would write me lil love letters, buy me cards, flowers, come to my apt. fix me dinner, sit and talk for hours. Things started to move along and get kind of serious because we seemed to be on the same page. I took him back to my hometown to meet all of my family cause I was excited and thought I had found something special. I met his kids and his family and all too. When we get back from our trip he has issues at his residence and ends up moving in with me. He looses his job and has no money saved to help out but I tell him to just get another job and I did what I could do to help him out and help out with his kids. Now we are having major issues because he is so disrespectful he talks to girls all day on the phone and on myspace and tells me they are just friends, friends that are constantly in my face and whom he constantly talks about all day

2006-08-23 02:37:30 · 39 answers · asked by soul child 4 in Singles & Dating