i am in this mystery ?
2006-08-23 02:42:43 · 11 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's more of an infatuation thing. I've had many great friends online and you really connect with someone when all you have is talking - but to REALLY know someone you need to meet with them and get to know what they are like when the computer is off and the phone off. I would try and meet this person face to face - maybe make it a vacation. ALWAYS leave yourself a way out in case it turns out bad - rent your OWN room at a hotel! Don't stay at their house or let them stay at yours. Visiting a place in the middle of you both will make it neutral ground as well and force a hotel reservation for both of you. And no matter what, just try and have a good time. Make sure the other person isn't assuming they will get laid right away (even if you've been doing the cyber sex thing) - instead make the trip about doing activities that are fun and active, but will help you get to know what each other are like off the phone/internet. A face to face and physically being able to touch and hug and see someone is such an important part of a relationship.
I wish you much luck! JUST BE SAFE no matter what!
remember that once the computer is off and the phone hung-up you have no idea what this person is really like - it is VERY easy to build up the fantasy life while you are both online, but outside of that you have no clue and no way of knowing. Keep yourself safe and meet them to get to know them even better :)
If you are too young to be able to rent your own hotel room or a car you're WAAAAY to young to be dating someone exclusively on the internet - go out and have some fun with other kids your age and play the field a little bit. If you want to wait until you are old enough to vacation alone, than do that - but be wise and don't sneak around behind your parents. They love you and want to keep you safe - being young and meeting someone you met on the internet is NOT safe.
2006-08-23 11:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by rrhiannon99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I just don't believe that's possible. If you've never even met a person, this "love" isn't real. I know that some people have met on the internet and phone for years, then arranged a meeting in real life later on. They fell in love after they seen each other in person, not on the phone. While I don't really think it's a good idea to carry on an online/phone relationship, if you trust this person with your heart, arrange a real meeting, then you might just begin to actually LOVE this person with your heart! I hope this helps your relationship!
2016-03-27 02:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love is possible without having met. I did not think so myself either, but it is true, and I currently am in this situation as well. We are going to get married as well. In the beginning we were both agreeing on the fact that we should only fall in love after meeting...We did not hold so long...We are in love, and we will marry soon, so in special cases I would say it's possible,a nd even working. He is the man I want to spend my life with, and have children with...
I wish you all the best for your phone-friend. If you really feel for him, have him visit you, or you go there...(just as my hubby is currently doing).
2006-08-23 20:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not lead one any where. What is love if you do not know the person fully well. What is knowing, if you have not met him at all. So, this sort of love is but self-deception. I won't even call this platonic love, as in platonic love also there is meeting but no physical relationship.
2006-08-23 02:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friendship, yes. Love, most likely, not.
There is more to love than talking on the phone. You may find out, if and when, you meet in person, that you wouldn't want to be around them in person.
2006-08-23 03:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's absurd nonsense. It happens only in films. How can you love a person so blindly without seeing to each other.
2006-08-23 18:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by RAJA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not love. Infatuation, maybe lust, but love needs people to meet in person.
2006-08-23 02:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO. Why? this is the mystery.
2006-08-23 08:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by computersir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah,of cos.even i'm inlove by chat n phn line.so its possible.i'm gonna marry too.
2006-08-23 03:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by compassionate_sylph 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes upto certain time. but not always. you want my no.
2006-08-23 02:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by lan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋