I find it really hard to make friends cause im shy and not open in front of new people....im always thinking about stuff like my brain never shuts down but people think i look angry when im thinking and they don't think I wanna be friends and stuff!!! I had no idea this was happening till a while ago but now I feel like an idiot and I dont know how to fix the situation......can u give me ideas on how to meet new people?
2006-08-23 02:44:19 · 17 answers · asked by volllballgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try just being yourself. Do activities you enjoy and you will find people who have mutual interests with you. Sometimes you have to force yourself to be a bit more friendly and take that step outside of your shell..I've had that same problem. Shy girl here as well. Just be yourself and keep and open mind.
2006-08-23 02:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have tons of friends.... and i can still be shy and quiet and look angry at times. i usually go shopping and chit chat with a bunch of people i dont know... like "HI" , "how are you doing today" as your walking by them in the store ... it really opens up a huge space... because if you can talk or even say a few words to someone you dont know.. it will be a lot eaiser to open up a conversation to an acquaintance, or even a good friend. I find it works for me. =)
2006-08-23 02:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by lynn m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every day challenge yourself to say hello to two new people. Anyone. Some chick on the street, the dude that sells you your coffee.. This will get you more comfortable with new people and eventually you'll find yourself opening up and having actual conversations. Then just try it on someone you think might be a good friend and see what happens.
2006-08-23 02:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl.....you are thinking way to much!! You are making assumptions on other people without giving them a chance. To try and take the shyness away, listen to what other people have to say instead of trying to guess what they're thinking!! Get to know people one on one, ask them questions because people really do enjoy talking about themselves - believe me. Sometimes all they need is an opportunity to tell someone who is interested. If you try this a few times, you won't even think about being shy!
2006-08-23 02:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you will possibly desire to confront her approximately it, and ask why she's treating you this form.. then she would be able of have a honest answer as this is head to head.. in case you overlook approximately her too she would have the ability to easily think of consistent with danger you's dont % to be acquaintances anymore.. and you do no longer % that?! so Confront her, if she's a first rate buddy, she would have the ability to hear to you and attach her techniques..desire this facilitates, good success! :) x
2016-10-02 10:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
g out to clubs and meet new people./dance sing along do something which is going to keep u ocupied at the same time meet new people.
2006-08-23 02:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds silly, but don't think so much. Just be yourself and you will find people with similar interests
2006-08-23 02:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a local party get drunk and take your clothes off
then offer a gangbang to a group of 4 guys min.
make a lasting impression
2006-08-23 02:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by niteshipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by smiling to poeple but dont try to look angry just try ur best on keeping a smile.
2006-08-23 03:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be able to talk about your life some to have friends. It will get easier if you relax and keep trying.
2006-08-23 02:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋