My boyfriend went on vacation in the US for a month. He asked me to house-sit. Got access to everything. On his computer, I discovered hundreds of porn images - of him and his past girlfriends over the years, and his past months' escapades with MARRIED women that I know personally.
I also discovered 3 unused condom packets in his kitchen cabinet. Problem is, we don't even have sex at all.
This is our second chance and I'm discovering more crappy things about him each day. His reason is that I should put up with it, and that dating an older man comes with a long history of past girlfriends.
My male bestfriend told me to leave my bf. He thinks that my bf will ruin and stop me from becoming what I want to be in the future because of all the crap I'm putting up with. My boyfriend has always been controlling and this relationship was always about him and not "us." He doesn't call me his girlfriend in front of his female friends too.
How will I ditch this immoral, inconsiderate pervert?
2006-08-23 02:39:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First off (since you have proof that he had been with married women) Get that proof to their husbands ASAP! That way when he comes home he will have alot of people waiting to kick his ***! Then delete all his personal info off the computer and don't answer his calls....you are young...live your life and find someone who appreciates you more.
2006-08-23 02:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you said it on here just say hey I am ditching you, you immoral inconsiderate pervert, If he can't admit that you are his girl in front of other women then he is ashamed of you and do you honestly want someone who can't even be proud to have you as a girlfriend, ditch him and get some fresh new meat!!!
2006-08-23 09:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by ConStar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him. and be sure that another woman's as wise as you will do so. in this way he will be alone and will start questioning himself about the real nature of human relationship [me+you+us]. just try to set yourself free from a 'relationship' that is consuming you energy and is worthless. I'm sure a lot of guys would like you. take care!
2006-08-23 09:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your stuff up and leave. Your bf is a self-centered twit. Ask your bestfriend if you can crash at his place to you find somewhere to stay.
2006-08-23 09:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mosaic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your self out of this relationship. Just tell him he is a bastard and your not putting up with his crap and that it is over.
2006-08-23 09:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave a note in his house saying dont ever contact me again you inconsiderate pervert and thats it
2006-08-23 09:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack up your things and get out before he comes back. You owe him no explanation.
2006-08-23 09:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back home now. If you don't like it, don't put up with it. Someone else may put up with his ego, but you don't have to.
2006-08-23 09:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop him like a hot potato. He sounds like a real slime and you deserve much better.
2006-08-23 09:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him he is a cheater!
2006-08-23 09:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋