Family & Relationships - 22 August 2006

Have you cheated on your spouse or bf/gf. Do they know?

2006-08-22 16:22:13 · 17 answers · asked by Tony in Texas 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay. My hubby and I are young and stupid but we're trying to get it together so we can make something of our life. Well we're staying at my mother in law's house to save money to get a house or trailor of our own. She is having money problems and wants to know how much money we make and are putting out, so she's opening up our mail. This mail includes bank statements and bills under both my name and my husband's. I don't know what to do b/c she's done this before and knows how much it upsets me and she hasn't stopped. What do I do? She owns a farm and we put in our share of work and we pay her a little money and pitch in for food here and there. And we do this even though she said we could stay with her for free to get back on our feet. We even watch over her daughter on nights she has to work and her daughter isn't a piece of cake to keep an eye on. She's a living terror.

2006-08-22 16:22:10 · 16 answers · asked by Ashleah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 15, shes very hott and she has never been in a relation ship for more than three weeks

2006-08-22 16:21:58 · 5 answers · asked by dmfootballer16@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

I showed interest towards my crush by smiling and winking at her but she showed lil emotion on her face, i think b/c i was looking at her like a piece of meat..lol. So then sadly, I walked away thinking that she didn't like me. When i'm the in the class, i'll see her looking at me sympathetically. Most of the time she'll stare at me, or she'll listen in on my conversations. I also noticed that she gets quiet when i enter the room, but usually she's very talkative around her friends. Could someone decode her behavior for me...do you think she likes me. BTW i'm a bi female

2006-08-22 16:21:34 · 10 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i know that i love him or not ? ok ive been with this guy from last 2 years we did have intimate moments but no it wasnt even oral sex it was just simple this guy is too serious and wants to get married evn i want to but i dont understand why does a second thought come in my mind????????? he is 7 years elder and loves me like crazy...

2006-08-22 16:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to go Biking on the bike route with a fellow coworker. I am new to the company. Private life should stay private , my husband says. And he says it is not safe. The bike route is woodsy and secluded probably. I really want to go. What do you guys think?

2006-08-22 16:21:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-22 16:20:42 · 12 answers · asked by Brooklin G 1 in Family

2006-08-22 16:19:26 · 31 answers · asked by almenjoy1977 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl at school I really like but i dunno if she is really interested in me. In the beginning i took in slowly just chatting a bit here and there , some how managing to get her phone number but lately things have just fallen apart, we rarily talk and most of it is online. Ive thougght about phoning her but i think it might feel really awkward and when i talk to her face to face, i get really nervous. If i dont do something now i believe that i will regret it forever because she really means the world to me. PLease help, need advice on what i should do in this situation, should i go back to school and start talking to her right away or should i give it time? Please Help!

2006-08-22 16:18:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my gf have gotten to 3rd base but we havent made out yet. what should i do?

2006-08-22 16:15:58 · 28 answers · asked by bub15 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 16:15:38 · 5 answers · asked by 2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this cousin who was practically my little sister. We were very close and I trusted her with everything. My mom recently has custody of her, because she has been in and out of different homes all her life, and last month she started telling lies about me and my family. She twists everything around so it looks like she's the victim and she tells everyone that we're going to say we pity her. Here's an example: My sister has two babies and she stays home all the time with them. One time our cousin ASKED to watch her baby girl so my sister let her. Then a week later one of my sister's friends call her and tell her that our cousin said that she should have custody of my sister's kids because she watches them ALL the time. And that is a really BIG lie. So i don't talk to her anymore, but I miss the person that doesn't lie about us. Should I forgive her and talk to her?

2006-08-22 16:15:23 · 14 answers · asked by softball_girl 2 in Family

2006-08-22 16:15:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay here is the deal:

I am 35 years old. I have sporadically (sp?) dated in my life, but nothing has ever turned into a serious relationship. The longest I have dated someone is 2 months. That makes me feel like such a freak.

I get really lonely and would like to marry and have kids one day.

I have been told I am attractive. I have a great paying career and am well-educated. I have things to say and to the best of my knowledge I don't have major character flaws like arrogance or bitchiness. I have great hygiene and don't smell bad, etc.

I haven't been asked out for 2 years. Guys never approach me or ask me out.

I can never tell if a guy likes me or is just trying to be my friend.

This is really depressing to me. I know I do not need a man to validate my existence but I do need love and companionship.

What is wrong with me?

Why don't guys ever seem to dig me?

2006-08-22 16:15:01 · 42 answers · asked by single_lady2007 1 in Singles & Dating

IS INDIAN SOCIETY SAME AS IT WAS 40 YEARS BACK.

2006-08-22 16:14:53 · 12 answers · asked by bhushan 2 in Family

I just started dating dis one guy ...he lives in front of me i have feelings 4 him but ders 2 things i dont like about him one of dem is the way he dresses,but i dont want 2 hurt his feelings by telling him wat should i do? n the other one is dat he dont wear boxers or anything like dat n u could imagine wat happends when he bends or when his pans kinda fall wat 2 do ppl c him n dont say nothing not even his friends

2006-08-22 16:14:27 · 3 answers · asked by jessica 19 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been talking to a guy online for 2 months and we have went out 3 times. He is safe and sane and a nice guy overall. However he is cheap and this is a major turnoff to me because I have had more than my share of cheap men. I wouldn't mind continuing to be friends with him but since we did meet on a dating site we are both looking for someone for a relationship. Our last date, we sat and talked for 3 hours and he never once offered to get me a coffee or an icecream or anything. We later when to a nice restaraunt and only had chips and salsa and I can't eat salsa so I only had chips. I was starving. I enjoy getting together with him occasionally but can't help but find everyday a disappointment. How should I handle breaking off with him or is there a way to get him to be a little more generous? He makes a good salary and says in his ad that he wants a woman who lilke to be pampered and spoiled. I don't want to be mean to him but I am just not happy with his cheapness

2006-08-22 16:14:13 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

Earlier I went to the restroom and hadn't checked my phone in awhile. I took my phone with me and saw that my daughters grandmother called. I called her back and talked to her for a minute. I came out the restroom when finished and my girl is upset cause I used the phone when I was in the restroom. She felt that I had something to hide cause I used the phone in the restroom. What do you guys think?

2006-08-22 16:13:24 · 19 answers · asked by ceo1callaway 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 years old and my science teacher is 38. She lived along my driving route home and I offered her rides home because she takes the bus and sinc she is a relatively small framed women, I kinda worried she might get assaulted - I didn't want her to have to commutte if I lived along her route and could help. Honestly I was looking for a slightly higher grade.

anyway, I took her home one friday night 3 weeks ago and she asked me to help her carry things to her apartment and I did it. When I got to her apartment, she offered me coffee and started a conversation. Next thing you know she was grabbing my crotch and aroussing me.
To make a long story short, I ended up knocking it out and we've been having a relationship for the past couple weeks. Having sex both at her home and in her office.

We know it shouldn't get too serious cause of our age difference but I think I'm falling for her. She has a great body and the sex is fantastic.

What should I do?

2006-08-22 16:12:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for around 80 people

2006-08-22 16:12:19 · 4 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4 in Weddings

If they do, what do they consist of. can they sue for custody of my child if they are threatening to do so?

2006-08-22 16:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by summer h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 23 yrs old Indian girl. Me a graduate and doing M.B.A. I am working for Youth Council in Canada for Youth Exchange Programme.I have been raped at 7 yrs old by my baby- sitter, i was sexually abused by my dad and mom, my dad used to beat me every day, i am unwanted child as they wanted to abort me but could not as my mom could be in critical state as it was cesarian section and it is illegal too. I was raped by my boy friend and his friend in a car. I am really lonely i just want to marry a guy, but knowing my past no one wants to. A guy in USA wants to marry me , he is coming to canada this week should i marry him, we are net friends and i met him on matrimonial site , he is 36 yrs old guy. and he knows my past, and he is very keen to marry me . V chatted on net for past 2 yrs, he is engaged to a girl in India but he wants to leave her and marry me as he wants to see me happy! I have no one who i can say as my own, and i need love , God helped and i studied, can i marry?

2006-08-22 16:11:37 · 27 answers · asked by isha s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-22 16:11:33 · 33 answers · asked by almenjoy1977 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell me your story!

2006-08-22 16:11:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What are the signs of your partner cheating? What should be look out for? Is there anyway to prevent it?

2006-08-22 16:10:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

IM preferably!

2006-08-22 16:09:43 · 6 answers · asked by UFC middleweight 2 in Singles & Dating

i just hooked him up with one of my best friends and he is friends with my boyfriend!!! yikes!!!

2006-08-22 16:09:14 · 37 answers · asked by trueblue77 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this girl for a few months now. i really like her and even tho i dont think she feels the same way about me, i really want to tell her but i dont want to make things weird between us afterwards. i really want to remain friends with her even if her response is no but i'm not sure what to say or how to say it... should i even risk telling her?

2006-08-22 16:08:43 · 11 answers · asked by Eddie 1 in Singles & Dating

I was driving through a torrential downpour when I saw her. She ran through the rain with a soaked newspaper held above her head in one hand and her pumps in the other. I pulled up next to her and told her to get in. She did not hesitate. With complete trust she thrust her saturated body into the gray leather seat. She turned to look at me simultaneously removing her curled auburn hair from her eyes. Thanks, she said, I’m Tanya. Sal, I responded. Where can I take you? She said she lived in Evanston near Northwestern University. Since I was shy at the time, the trip was pretty quiet. Only some light classical music was playing in the background. We are headed north on Lake Shore Drive when we hit some traffic. At this point visible frustrated she takes off her top. She then said, do you mind? I hope not because there is no way I am going to sit here with these wet clothes on. Now she is sitting there in a black bra holding her hands in front of the vents in an attempt to warm up.

2006-08-22 16:07:52 · 9 answers · asked by Joe Average 2 in Singles & Dating

he nice but ignorant at times but he says he cares but i dont know

2006-08-22 16:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by wifey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships