why do husbands take their wife granted,and don't want their wives to expect same from them?

Question

IS INDIAN SOCIETY SAME AS IT WAS 40 YEARS BACK.

Answer 1

Dear this is called Indian society and culture.

Atleast if we cannot change this mentalism of men right now, let us try to train our sons to leave their male ego adjust and love their wifes when they will get married when they are young.

It is responsibilty of mother, to train and make son understand the feelings and emotions of female. Problems which she face.

Once our sons become used to this, for sure after 20-50 yrs this can be changed.

Answer 2

I recently read that love is entirely a matter of chemistry.
That must be why my wife treats me like toxic waste.

David Bissonette


When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge
than to let him keep her.

Sacha Guitry


After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin;
they just can't face each other, but still they stay together.

Hemant Joshi


By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy.
If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.

Socrates


Woman inspires us to great things, and
prevents us from achieving them.

Dumas


The great question... which I have not been able to answer...
is, "What does a woman want?

Sigmund Freud


I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me.

Anonymous


"Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go
to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft
music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays."

Henry Youngman


"I don't worry about terrorism. I was married for two years."

Sam Kinison


"There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than
electronic banking. It's called marriage."

James Holt McGavran


"I've had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me
and the second one didn't."

Patrick Murray


Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming
1. Whenever you're wrong, admit it,
2. Whenever you're right, shut up.

Nash


The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is
to forget it once...

Anonymous


You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to.

Henny Youngman


My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.

Rodney Dangerfield


A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.

Milton Berle


Marriage is the only war where one sleeps with the enemy.

Anonymous


A man inserted an 'ad' in the classifieds: "Wife wanted". Next day he
received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can
have mine."

Anonymous


First Guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!" Second Guy "You're lucky,
mine's still alive."

Answer 3

There is no such thing as a 'perfect' human being. We feed off our partner's emotions and behaviour. Don't fret. Try communicating more and compromising a little too - both of you. It will be fine. Having the freedom to do as you wish results from your partner being able to trust you. Perhaps you have given your husband something to feel insecure and mistrusting about. Think about it. Yes, partners should be best friends. That is what makes the relationship work. To be happy you need to understand each other and be prepared to compromise.

Answer 4

I go with Jagan48. He is true. Its just a man's ego. but I have also to say that it is the mistake of women too. She should make him understand that his egoism is intolerable. Indian women seldom thinks of living alone and that is the only reason for men to take them for granted. The insecure life of a divorcee woman makes the man to go still more egoistic and think that his lady can't live without his help. A day will come soon when women rebel to live alone. dont worry.

Answer 5

Dear, Indian society may change or not men will not change.Men will take you the way you want them to take you.

If u dont allow them to take you for granted then how will they do it?

Answer 6

Sorry it is not the same everywhere. What U say is just your openion. My openion totally differs.

Answer 7

I believe in giving people a taste of there own medicine, and it works.

Answer 8

it is called double standards and there is a lot of it around in hypocritical and macho cultures

Answer 9

It is just a manly ego.

Answer 10

early childhood training!