Earlier I went to the restroom and hadn't checked my phone in awhile. I took my phone with me and saw that my daughters grandmother called. I called her back and talked to her for a minute. I came out the restroom when finished and my girl is upset cause I used the phone when I was in the restroom. She felt that I had something to hide cause I used the phone in the restroom. What do you guys think?
2006-08-22 16:13:24 · 19 answers · asked by ceo1callaway 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't see anything wrong with that. At least you weren't talking in the checkout line and being completely rude to the cashier.
2006-08-22 16:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you feel like she is over reacting then you should just tell her that and not give everyone on yahoo answers your twisted little storie trying to make her look paranoid. I mean hey if you don't want to be with her anymore and are tired of her not trusting you tell her and/or leave her alone, don't use/make excuses, "everyone on answers says your tripping!"
She may have good reasons for not accepting the BS, like why you gotta check your phone in the first place, is it on vibrate/silent or something? Have you been caught ducking off to talk to other females on the phone before, like 6:00am in the morning after your girl goes to work? Do you talk on the phone constantly and consistently with other females, who you know like you and want to f**k you even though they know you have a girl? Are there girls that leave inappropriate mutha f**king messages about them wanting to see you and how sexy you are? Do you erase numbers and messages from your phone because you know they will upset your girl?
If you answered yes to any or all of the above questions, what you should do is apologize, and either get her some flowers, take her out, or buy her some baby phat.
P.S.
If she reads this and realizes you would rather put your relationship on BLAST rather than just sit down and talk to her and come to some kind of conclusion, you may want to pick two of those previous choices!
2006-08-23 04:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by soul child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand a bit where she is coming from. sometimes women can get a bit worried that you are doing something behind their backs. considering the restroom is a rather private place, maybe she was curious as to why you made the phone call in the bathroom and not in front of her. but if you just tell her who it was, and if she doesn't believe you show her the call log, she will be okay and lay off. it's not necessarily that she doesn't trust you. don't worry, if you talk to her and tell her what happened it will be okay!
2006-08-22 23:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by adriana24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on if you are being honest or not? Why didn't you check it before you went to the restroom instead of taking it with you? Sounds fishy to me. I think she is right to wonder about your motives. Be more open and up front next time, if you get one.
2006-08-22 23:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Reassure her that you are not playing games with her and how important it is for you guys to trust one another. Secondly, if you are like a lot of young brothers, and you are trying to run game, you need to stop because it's not cool. We are living in times where people don't respect one another. Respect, honesty and trust, in addition to love, are all qualities that both parties in a relationship must have in order for it to work. I will be praying for you both. Peace and God bless.
2006-08-22 23:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by cave man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her I was just using the phone in the bath room and tell her to sit down and stop trippin
Thats jus women/woman
W-Winers
O-Over Emotional
M-Money Hungrey
A-Angry all the time
E-Envious
N-Naggers
and if you add the S
S-Suspicious
2006-08-22 23:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to her about why she's so insecure...it's easy enough to show her your call log so she can see what # called you or you called at a specific time...
Bottom line...if she doesn't trust you, things aren't going to last long so y'all need to figure out what the issue is (particularly her) and get it dealt with, or go ahead and move on now...
2006-08-22 23:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a guy, but I would suggest you finding a girl with some self confidence.
2006-08-22 23:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kindly explain that you was talking to your daughters grandmother, if she dont believe press redial infront of her...u must have cheated on her because she is very insecure...
2006-08-22 23:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by krisisforlife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone needs to get over themselves.
2006-08-22 23:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋