I found out that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating again with the same girl is it me? what do I do?

Answer 1

i got cheated on , and **** hurts but i stayed...and now i suspect the same thing...im scared as hell to leave her..love her too much..either u can accept it or ask him what ur doing wrong..hopefully it works goodluck

Answer 2

Honestly you should of broke up with him the first time you found out he was cheating on you its true what they say once a cheater all ways a cheater. He doesn't deserve to know you let alone be your boyfriend don't ever think you have to settle for an ***-hole like that leave him and stop looking for love a good man will find you soon

Answer 3

Its time to let him go. He does not deserve you after you gave him a chance once before. It's going to hurt but I promise that after some time you will be in a better place and you will find someone that really will LOVE YOU enough to respect you and not do that. He does not love you because if he did he wouldn't of cheated on you twice with the same girl. Just try not to let him see how you feel because he probably won't care about you if he already has his rebound. Until someone hurts him, then he will see what he did to you! Much Love (been there and ut hurts)

Answer 4

His cheating isn't your fault. When he cheats, he's not thinking about his commitment to you. That means he is self-absorbed, selfish and immature.

The saying is that men cheat because they're bored with what they have...while women cheat because they dont feel loved by thier mate.

I've found the boredom argument silly. A man doesnt get bored masturbating...he cant cheat on his own hands can he?

So for a man to get bored with another person is just silly, and it really points to that man's inability to reach beyond his own shallowness and connect with his partner.

Answer 5

pack his crap if he stays with u throw it out the door and change the locks tell him u r betta than him u deserve better than him and ur gonna go get what u deserve. i mean oh now u r gonna say u love him, well girl plz if he is cheatin on u he dont love or respect u one bit and if u let him stay he will continue to walk all ova u n cheat cheat cheat..tell him to get the hell out cha life its time for u to get what u been missin

Answer 6

Break up with him. I'd say give him a second chance, but since you said "cheating AGAIN" I'd say you already gave him that chance and he blew it. If he's willing to cheat on you twice, he'll probably do it again.

Answer 7

if he cheats u once shame on him but if he cheats u twice shame on u....when we're in love we tend to do things we never do and we dont want to listen to people when they are advising is which is actually normal cause thats y they call 'love is blind'....dumped him...move on...of course it will hurt like hell but it will make u stronger trust me...as time flies the wound will heal...been there and done that...u will meet some1 better..good luck dear

Answer 8

honey, if he had done it before and he is doing it again, no, it is not your fault, it is him being an A. H. you did not give him the idea of doing it, he choose to do it all by himself. But remember, fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. If he had proven that he won't change for the love of you, let him go. YOU DESERVE WAY MORE THAN THAT please respect yourself and don't let anyone walk all over you.

Answer 9

Dump him, and move on. Obviously he cannot be trusted. Do you want to go through life worrying about it all the time?? Life is too short. There are more important things to do!

Answer 10

You should have left him the first time you found out about his infidelity. You validated his behavior, and suprise, suprise, he did it again. Leave him now, or it will continue. You could get a disease.