how do i know that i love him or not ? ok ive been with this guy from last 2 years we did have intimate moments but no it wasnt even oral sex it was just simple this guy is too serious and wants to get married evn i want to but i dont understand why does a second thought come in my mind????????? he is 7 years elder and loves me like crazy...
2006-08-22 16:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at times its could be devil distraction, because marrage stage is the most honourable time on heart and in heaven,......so be wise and very prayerful.............
2006-08-22 16:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by j boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there can be all kinds of reasons for second thaughts is there some things he does that bothers you and are they really a big thing or can let go of? and also maybe just cold feet worried what next, its a normal and all couples gettin married has them, dont worry too much if the question above didnt have red flags up on things he does, its just a normal then.
2006-08-22 16:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you love him and he loves and is so CRAZY about you, then marry him. Don't marry him if you have doubts. Actually, if you have to ask complete strangers on Yahoo if you should get married, then you are too immature and shouldn't.
2006-08-22 16:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 100% sure that you want to get married then go ahead because remember you have to live with him for the rest of your life.
2006-08-22 16:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by carine-bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a problem with a small age gap like 7 years then you do not love him. my woman is 12 years my elder and i dont have a problem with it. no one i know has a problem with it because we are in love. i dunno how to explain what true love feels like.. i know that i feel complete. but im babbling now.
~peace~
2006-08-22 16:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by East Texan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not the right person. Take the break-up pain now not later. You would not have waited two years if it was PERFECT.
2006-08-22 16:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Stan the answer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you no ready don't rush wait and wait and wait till you be sure you ready to take the leap into matrimonyhood
2006-08-22 16:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Totoru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me dear, if you have never been intimate with him, don't just jump up and marry him.........Tell him he's pressuring you and is causing you to have ill feelings toward him.......If he really cares for you , he'll wait as long as it takes.........Take care, honey.........
2006-08-22 16:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married unless you know it is what you want. And when it is time, you will know.
2006-08-22 16:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Tina K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the way you sound you don't love him.
2006-08-22 16:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋