Family & Relationships - 21 August 2006

I have just had my heart completely broken by ex and thought i could never believe in love again. but suddenly my dearest, best friend who i've loved for 13 years says he wants us to give it a go, this is the first time we've both been single at the same time and he says he had to say something before he missed his chance. it would be a long-distance relationship to start, not giving up everything for a man again. can this work or is a 13yr friendship too much to risk, i would be devastated to not have him in my life, my son is even named after him. don't want to rush into anything, but don't want to miss chance for true love either. how do i know if it's the real thing? my ex fooled me so badly, am scared to believe...

2006-08-21 01:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-21 01:25:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Telling your girl that you know they are away meeting someone behind your back, even though you have no actual evidence.

2006-08-21 01:24:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-08-21 01:24:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't heard from her. She initiated it, so chivalry be damned, she should have to spend the credits right?

2006-08-21 01:24:18 · 5 answers · asked by paddy 3 in Singles & Dating

So I broke it off and told her stop contacting me. Well this crazy bltch won't stop calling or emailing me. How can I lose this psycho?

2006-08-21 01:24:03 · 18 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-21 01:23:42 · 4 answers · asked by Sara *Life is so unlike theory* 5 in Friends

2006-08-21 01:23:36 · 3 answers · asked by sunita_1503 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've a 5 & half yrs old boy from my previous marriage who is going to be in Kindergarten this year. My boyfriend of 4 yrs asked me to move in with him and plan to start the new family. He wants me to be a stay home mom taking care my son, we are planning to have more kids of our own as well. I've always worked in my life. I'm raised in the way that don't rely on man, earn your own money and be independent. Plus I just switched to a great job early this year, I earn decent money with great benefits myself. He makes very good money which is well enough to take care of family. I love to spend more time with my kids, I can see myself drop/pick him at school and more involved in his school as well. But I also find it's difficult to walk away from my job and money, I can't imagine myself ask for money from bf. My ex doesn't financially support my son, I feel it's my job to provide him. My plan was to hire a nanny after we've a new baby. What would you do?

2006-08-21 01:23:09 · 5 answers · asked by lost 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi we are a lesbian couple, i have 3 children from a previous relationship but we would like a child together.
We live in lincolnshire but are willing to travel, we would like this to be a no strings affair!
Any ideas, help or suggestions would be great, thanks

2006-08-21 01:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by angelxxshaz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:22:20 · 27 answers · asked by lipgloss742000 1 in Family

2006-08-21 01:21:40 · 55 answers · asked by lipgloss742000 1 in Family

Ok, let's see if I can explain this...

I have known "Joe" for about 6 years. We dated for about 3 years or so, and then unofficially broke up and remained friends. About a month ago, he said he wanted to try dating me again. I agreed, and now we've made plans to move in together (in about 9 or 10 months).

About 2 or 3 months ago he told me of a one night stand he had with this girl we both used to work with, but told me it was when we were unofficially broke up. But all the while we remained freinds he would tell me of all the girls he would go out with, but never mentioned this one night stand until very recently.

I told him it sent up "red flags" for me and suspect it happened while we were still dating. He maintains his claim that it was after we became just friends.

My question is this: Should I trust that he is telling the truth and move forward with our plans? (I'm a single mom with lots at stake if I give up my place to move in with him. I guess I'm scared. Help!)

2006-08-21 01:20:29 · 5 answers · asked by dmh1973 1 in Singles & Dating

would it include anyfoods suitable for "swapping ".....or coating ur partner.............

2006-08-21 01:19:16 · 12 answers · asked by mylene 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that Bush thrated the fbi with arrest if they intervined in stopping 9/11? Did the US Govt carry out the attacks b/c america stands in the way of the new world order? To push and promote martial law and the police state, To impose fear among the american people to allow the govt and bush administration to gain power? Was it also carried out by the Govt to push the patriotic act and real id act? (www.nonationalid.com) as well as to pormote the cashless society?
Is it true the UN is going ti inflict pestilines and dieases against the worlds population b/c they want a 80-90% world population reduction?

Is it true Bill clinton raped girls in 1978?

Is it true arabs were also involved in the Oklahoma city bombing in 1995 which 12 cameras caught them doing it and the ATF comfinscared them all and never relased them? Is it true Clinton ordered there realease of all the arabs arrested??

Is the Govt more corrupted then anybody can imagine?

2006-08-21 01:18:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by t_faj 2 in Singles & Dating

im gona be a freshman

2006-08-21 01:16:42 · 7 answers · asked by letswastetimechasingcars 1 in Friends

2006-08-21 01:15:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:15:36 · 21 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend brought up the fact that I joked with her older husband and he was hurt. Four of us were out to dinner. Me, my husband, her, and her husband. I told her there was an elderly man next to me who had an "old people smell" and it was hard to eat. Then a few minutes later, I joked with her husband and said, "Do you have the old people smell?" His reaction was a chuckle. Well, 5 days later, my best friend emails me that he felt I spoke in bad taste, and it was rude of me to say this. I apologized, but told her I, myself was hurt by him taking offense to that when I was only kidding. Well, one thing led to another, and we (through emails) argued back and forth, and ending with her saying I am just like my mother, a self centered whining baby, and I needed to get a life, and not count on other people to make my life happy, and numerous other put downs to me. Now in all our email conversations, I never once put her down, or did any name calling. I am hurt beyond belief.

2006-08-21 01:14:51 · 4 answers · asked by antiquecollector_83 1 in Friends

I like this girl at uni, we sms time to time, and used to chat heaps, but now we have diff timetables. We are in 1 class and i swear she looked at me over 30 times today.

She used to have a boyfriend, and i have a huge feeling she may still (knowing my luck)

I look in her direction heaps, but dont wanna get caught staring at her, id feel like a stalker.
In class today she came up to me had a small chat nothing super long.

we caught eyes like 10 times, when just staring around the room, but when we near each other we catch eyes stare, and just look deep into each others eyes (i always pull off first as i feel bad if she has a bf)

Do you think she is interested? what should i do, i dont have a good opp to have a convo, and cant just walk up and ask if she has one

2006-08-21 01:13:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been with my man for 9 years and over the last 2 years he dont care about himself or his body, he is now a big man, an has a lot of stretch marks over his body, i keep thinking that if he dont start to look after himself, he will end up haveing health problems, later on in life, we dont have sex anymore unless he gets mad at me, and then i do, i have spoken to him about all of this many times, but he still dont care, please help me in what you think i should do

2006-08-21 01:11:53 · 14 answers · asked by louise 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you are looking for protection from someone or something, post it here.

2006-08-21 01:11:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As a single guy, i wouldn't want to get involved with a woman with another mans child, for many many reasons, one being i wouldn't want an ex boyfriend being part of our lives probably for ever.

I find it amazing how many single mothers there are, sometimes it can be quite difficult to find a woman who doesn't have a child.

Can there be so many men who are bas**ards and have walked out on you all? Was it your decision? Do you feel that it has reduced your chance of finding a man as i'm sure the majority of men would prefer you not to?

And guys, wouldn't you prefer a girl without some elses child?

I've had a few relationships where she had children and it was a nightmare, i say never again and my friends have had the same experiences.

2006-08-21 01:11:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found a site, http://www.cowtowninfo.com/personals/jailbabes-main.html that lists personals ads from female inmates along with their mailing addresses. I'm wondering if this is a scam or if these are real people. Some of the ads read as though they are truly nice women who have made wrong choices along the way, but deep down some seem to be more victims of circumstances (such as drug abuse) than bad people.

I wouldn't consider a "lifer", someone who lists her marital status as "widow", but some have short sentences that are drug related that might be more open to a normal relationship.

Has anyone written to any of these ladies? What has been your experience? Are they after more than friendship?

2006-08-21 01:06:01 · 3 answers · asked by Bo D 1 in Friends

Is it because he wants sex with me? I am a pretty looking girl.

2006-08-21 01:06:01 · 13 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are leaving for vacation soon and they want me to stay at my boyfriends house while they are gone. I will meet them 2 weeks later so I have to stay there for 2 weeks. The problem is that me and his Stepmom do not get along very well so I am not sure if I am doing the right thing. Please help me decide...?

2006-08-21 01:03:55 · 20 answers · asked by Lexy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When You Ask a Question About Love And Relationships 9 People Answer?
But You Ask About Sex Or Dating 35 People Answer?

2006-08-21 01:03:51 · 19 answers · asked by XXSEXY66XX 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:02:48 · 19 answers · asked by .? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships