Family & Relationships - 21 August 2006

I have been separated for 2 monthsand everyone around me is interested in dating but I am not, my ex has someone already soon to move in with him.

2006-08-21 01:51:18 · 33 answers · asked by num 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to have kids in my future, but my guy doesnt want kids, i love him very much and want to stay with him but what do i do about the kid part? should i just move on or stay with him and hope?

2006-08-21 01:49:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend has this close female friend (she has been friends with all his family for more than 10 years) but I can't help but think she wants him when she calls him all the time. He doesn't talk to her in front of me.. she lives quite a distance away from us so I'm not worried about him cheating, I just don't like the idea of them talking so much. I have never even met her but I hate her cause she is moving in on me and my man and our family. Am I being paranoid or what should I do?

2006-08-21 01:48:53 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf and I have been dating for 6 years...and she wants to get married...She asked me about marriage 3 years ago and I told her I wasn't ready cuz I had just gotten out of school, but now 3 years later she asked me again about getting married and I told her I wasn't ready and that I wanted to earn some money before even thinking about settling down and she says she understands... but our friends are wondering when we will tie the knot, and so she responds by saying sh!t like "Hey I am ready, he is the one who isn't ready" ...How do I get her off my case!?! Why doesn't she realize I am not ready! I am 28 and she is 26, I have been working for 3 years and she just graduated from college and wants to know when we can get hitched...I told her "what's the rush? It's all downhill once you get married anyway.." so why doesn't she just wait? I, personally don't think I will even be ready to think about marriage for at least another 3 or 4 years...so why does she keep rushing me?

2006-08-21 01:48:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or commando?

2006-08-21 01:46:38 · 16 answers · asked by Master Qui Gonn 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a party for my daughter this weekend & my boyfriend came with his children. This was the first time he'd been to my home, he met all my friends, my mom, saw where I live. (We've been seeing one another for just over a month) The party started at 4 pm & about 6 he said he'd have to wrap it up cos they were going home to watch wresting pay per view. So he left, went to his cousins' house where it sounded like they'd all moved on to a huge party with a lot of folks there. Was I right to get mad? ( & my feelings are definitely hurt! ) It was only one evening & he could have told them, "sorry, I have plans with my girlfriend that evening & can't come watch wrestling that night." Or was that expecting too much? I went to a lot of trouble to make this a great party for the adults as well as the children, so that's not the issue. I am steamed & do not want to talk to him when he calls me this morning cos I'm afraid I'm going to rip into him. Advice, plz? & don't be nasty about it, thx

2006-08-21 01:43:52 · 11 answers · asked by pumpkin 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:43:14 · 1 answers · asked by kelly y 1 in Friends

I know, I know it's MUCH better when it's equal, but that is usually rare............so, then which is better?

Also, who would you rather be stranded on a desert island with?

2006-08-21 01:43:06 · 3 answers · asked by aggie babe 3 in Singles & Dating

...... and have done so now for the past year. I have no intention of anything happening between us, as he's married. I hardly ever speak to him, as I work very hard and am a naturally quiet person. I have noticed that he glances at me quite a lot, but I just keep my head down and carry on with my work. Now he has asked me when I will be back again at the hospital working for his colleague, as my time working for him finishes today. All I want is to be left alone to get on with my work. What is he implying? As far as I know, I've done nothing to encourage anything from him, apart from a friendly, smiley face with general conversation.

2006-08-21 01:42:56 · 11 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been separated from my husband for two years and this has been my first dating opportunity since then. It is not a relationship yet, but the guy I am seeing is crazy about having children. He talks about it all th time. I dont want to have children now that is for sure, as he we dont have anything solid going on, and I dont know if I will ever want children with him, as he is 36 now (I am 32), he only studies, does not have a job, nor a house, nor a car or anything of his own. Plus having children is not a dream of mine on itself. Anyway, I feel sad when I think about stopping seeing him cause of his immediate wish for kids.. After all he is the only guy I date in 2 years and I think he is sweet, romantic, thoughtfull and handsome. Should I stop seeing him anyway cause I dont want to give him the immediate child he wants?

2006-08-21 01:42:50 · 24 answers · asked by Graça 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:41:46 · 2 answers · asked by uwabasse5 2 in Singles & Dating

would anyone ever want 2 go out with a california heidi from the hills look alike???if so then post it here cause i look just like heidi

2006-08-21 01:41:27 · 3 answers · asked by wish i could have my navy man 2 in Singles & Dating

What are your first impressions when you pull a mans pants down, and he is, well not that big? Are you dissapointed or think it can't get any worse? And have you ever laughed or rejected anyone because of size?

2006-08-21 01:41:19 · 2 answers · asked by chrisnewcars 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:40:42 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:40:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister and her hubby are visiting from all the way across the country and are here for ten days. They are staying at a hotel and it is conveniently near a subway only three stops away from the stop that conveniently serves my house. But they show up at ten am and do not leave until ten pm! If they want to go somewhere, they expect my kids and myself to always accompany them and show extreme disappointment if any of us does not. We're finding we need some down time alone in our house. My sister has a heart of gold, her hubby is a pain in the neck. I won't see them for another year probably. Can I, and how, do I tell them something? Their hotel is very comfortable, by the way. They just think we should take advantage of this vacation and spend as much time as possible together. A week to go...

2006-08-21 01:40:21 · 6 answers · asked by browneyedgirl 6 in Family

2006-08-21 01:40:20 · 14 answers · asked by milli 1 in Singles & Dating

It has been a year since I caught my ex of a few years cheating, I have been having a rough year. I have met many men since but none of them work out. I dont know if its me not yet over the fact of my ex, or it just takes time to find the one. Or if Im too picky. Or too desperate? What would be your advice?

2006-08-21 01:37:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need someone to chat to

2006-08-21 01:37:01 · 11 answers · asked by chwabo 1 in Friends

i was with my boyfriend for 4 months we recently split up but we have been meeting still. he is also meeting another girl but does not want to be with her. he wants to be with me and i want to be with him but the other girl recently lost a relative and he does not no how to tell her. this is seriously tearing us apart we need help quick please help us ! ! !

2006-08-21 01:35:13 · 4 answers · asked by sensual 3 in Singles & Dating

My gf wants me to go down on her but little does she know...I have never done it before and Iam really nervous! I don't even know what to do down there! What should I do?

2006-08-21 01:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by Faye 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 01:30:39 · 21 answers · asked by Weedy 1 in Singles & Dating

I signed up to MySpace. And then me and my boyfiend had a big fight. He told me
" You are not single anymore" in my profile it asks if you are single, married, or in a relationship I put "in a relationship" and i told him that and showed him. I sighned up to find my friends.

2006-08-21 01:29:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now I don't have a relationship I just occasionaly have sex with this guy.I couldn't keep the relationship with the otherone.Sincerely I don't know why.I simply couldn't.Should I feeel guilty?I mean we weren't getting along very well and we weren't having sex at all.

2006-08-21 01:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by anamaria 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-21 01:28:13 · 4 answers · asked by Maverick 1 in Singles & Dating

ive never felt like i was cheating before.

2006-08-21 01:27:57 · 6 answers · asked by jd 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Michigan, and have part custody of my nephews with my brother by the courts...He is not helping with the children at all, me and my husband are doing everything, school, doctor appt.,ect.
Can we petition after a certain time frame that my brother be removed from co-custody... His only intrest is the children's social security money which we both have to sign for. He wants part of the money...I explained this to the judge who concern was keeping the family together.

2006-08-21 01:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by jazzygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I seems to have lost interest in making love, not that I have any health problem (ED), just that I cant find the passion/eagerness in it. Please advice how to rekindle that passion, as i really do not wish to hurt my wife, thus what i am doing now is to force myself to make love with her. PS: I get turn on by watching porn movies, but i feel uncomfortable watching porno movies with my wife

2006-08-21 01:27:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean its really difficult to talk to girls cos they neva listen because they are always talking

2006-08-21 01:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a 39 year old divorced physician, and a young nurse (she is 22) and i had sex after work the other day. she is married with a daughter. i think she is very attractive and nice. she initiated the relationship with me. what should i do? i do like her, but she is a lot younger and married

2006-08-21 01:26:03 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce