...... and have done so now for the past year. I have no intention of anything happening between us, as he's married. I hardly ever speak to him, as I work very hard and am a naturally quiet person. I have noticed that he glances at me quite a lot, but I just keep my head down and carry on with my work. Now he has asked me when I will be back again at the hospital working for his colleague, as my time working for him finishes today. All I want is to be left alone to get on with my work. What is he implying? As far as I know, I've done nothing to encourage anything from him, apart from a friendly, smiley face with general conversation.
2006-08-21 01:42:56 · 11 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't borrow trouble. It sounds innocent so far. Just continue to be pleasant and professional. If he makes a serious advance, you must deal with it quickly and make him understand you are not interested. If working around him becomes uncomfortable for you, don't hesitate to look for another job.
2006-08-21 01:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he kows that you are a good worker and that your are an asset. He may just want you to be a full employee and nothing more. You may just be looking to far into this.
On the other hand keep doing what you are doing and let it be. If he takes it to far and makes an advance towards you then you have to do the right thing until then just be yourself and get your work done.
2006-08-21 08:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful with this one as you could easily jeopardize your career working with\for health professionals by being indiscreet. Ignore him and keep your mouth shut about it. Keep your distance. It is always a bad idea to have an affair with someone who can influence your livelihood.
2006-08-21 08:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're thinking about this too much. You can't help him looking at you, he's human. As long as he's not "leering" at you, you shouldn't be uncomfortable. He may have just been trying to make smal talk with you too, merely showing an interest in his staff. Don't mistake "friendly" for flirting. Just because he talks to you doesn't mean he's interested in you sexually.
2006-08-21 09:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested to have or enjoy some nice time , go ahead and if not interested , without creating scene tell him flatly , you are not interested to spend extra-time in his company , that way no one feel guilty and will part your way for the regular job .
2006-08-21 08:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels like you don't like your job because your a little quiet an to yourself. He's just being nice to make work enviorment more friendly for you, no worried
2006-08-21 08:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Christian B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just politely ignore him. Dont worry about it, be a ***** if you have to. Whatever gets across that you dont want to be bothered.
2006-08-21 09:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what are you worried about here? If he asks you out, say no, you're married. I don't see the problem.
2006-08-21 08:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your looking in to it too deep...Maybe it's nothing at all and he just enjoys working with you.
2006-08-21 08:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
keep doing what you are doing. If he should seem to show more interest, kindly remind him that he is married.
2006-08-21 08:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋