sleeping with a married woman?

Question

i am a 39 year old divorced physician, and a young nurse (she is 22) and i had sex after work the other day. she is married with a daughter. i think she is very attractive and nice. she initiated the relationship with me. what should i do? i do like her, but she is a lot younger and married

Answer 1

Don't have an affair with a married woman. It's not good to help ruin someone's marriage. She's doing it to him and she would do it to you. Besides how would you feel if you were in the other man's shoes ?

Answer 2

Think carefully before any action is taken. Maybe the kind of love that you are getting is 50% or less. See it as a love equation, her husband maybe holding 60% shares of her heart and you are holding 40%. Both add up to a 100% of love satisfaction for her and she can have the best of both worlds. If you are only getting 40% of the shares, do not commit your 101% of feeling because you may be the one suffering the great loss at the end. What she wants from you maybe the special attention that you are giving her and fulfilling the missing 40% which she do not get from her husband.

Answer 3

sir you have already done something so why are you asking what to do now. Advice was not necessary while you was running up in someone's wife and mother. My advice b/c I am just one of those ppl you have done the damage so ride that crap on out. Have a good time but sweetcheeks when you go to move on and you will be the one to drop her first then she will get all pissy and smear your name or make your demons exposed. I mean if I was banging a physician either you have a butt load of money or a handful of debt and either way I am finding my way in that nest egg. So just know that you are prolly being used and you are using so your outcome is already crappy. Be sure to do it in random places and feel oh so alive for her husband.

Answer 4

For a Physician you are not too well trained... especially in the area of ethics... You mentioned that she initiated the relationship... Well it also took you to accept it... and now you want to know what to do... If you were smart you would tell her it was a mistake and you acted on a whim... and end it at that... If you work with her... well that may present a problem... just remember you put yourself in the position you find yourself in...

Answer 5

She could be a gold digger if she is not happy in her relationship at home. You are a man(DR) and know better than to get caught up in a booty call. If she will approach you that easily, then how many other men is she approaching? You have already done the deed and she will probably want to do it again. Make sure you use birth control so she does not get pregnant. If I were you I would be suspicious that she is up to something.

Answer 6

Why all this started at the first place, is she having problem with her husband? She could be married at very young age and loose out her freedom hence is looking for excitment. But think again if anything happen the most innocent party will always be the kid....think about it.

Answer 7

I would leave her alone. Would you want your wife running around on you? You know it's not right, your a smart man with a degree. Just leave her alone. If she's wanting to cheat on her husband, what kind of person do you think she is? She has a child, and she's married. you don't want wrapped in the middle of all that.

Answer 8

Do the right thing and don't continue with any relationship with her. If you do you will be breaking up a family. It must feel good to have a young girl like you but be the grown up.

Answer 9

You need to stop seeing her outside of the work only basis. Thank your lucky stars her husband hasn't found out about this. You may be a doctor but he has the capability to put you in the ER as a patient.

Answer 10

A: never get "involved" in the workplace. B: always be a little leary when someone 15+ yrs younger than you gets interested C: if enjoying life living on the edge, ride her til she bucks.