I have been separated for 2 monthsand everyone around me is interested in dating but I am not, my ex has someone already soon to move in with him.
2006-08-21 01:51:18 · 33 answers · asked by num 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you feel sad and right now not secure about yourself. but in time, you will.
2006-08-21 01:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.
Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.
She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!
Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!
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2016-04-22 10:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by blanche 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-14 01:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. You probably need a break from all the things couples do. Two months is not long. Do something like catch up on your reading or redecorate your apartment, do a major makeover...
If you feel the same way after six months, that's when you should consider moving to some other town. Perhaps, the place where you live now just don't have enough interesting men to make you want to go out on a date. hehe
2006-08-21 02:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much about not having any interest in dating so soon after a break up.
It may well be that you would get into a relationship for the wrong reasons.
There is too much pressure on us to not be single, and it's not always good to dive back in too soon.
Take time out for you and don't do anything about dating till YOU are ready.
2006-08-21 02:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by honey lugs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-28 09:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by gudrun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with not wanting to date anyone. I'm in the same place you are.....just ended a 4 year relationship and I'm enjoying being on my own, being single and doing whatever the heck I want whenever I want. lol. It's a good thing to take time to heal yourself.....if you're going out dating right away you are just covering up your feelings.
2006-08-21 02:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you've anything to worry about to many people rush into replacement relationships without giving themselves time to recover from there previous relationship breakdown , my marriage broke down about about 18 months ago and my wife left just over a year ago and i have yet to consider a new relationship although a lot of people close to me have actively encouraged me to start dating again , my ex-wife on the other hand is now onto her third relationship since leaving which shows that her first 2 were a mistake so stay single until you're ready to date again
2006-08-24 08:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by saint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly OK not to date for a while after a breakup - it's actually very healthy because it allows time for you to heal. Relax, just enjoy the breather and take it easy. When the time comes you will date again and it will be that much easier because of this break.
2006-08-21 02:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone "needs" to have someone in their life. You just aren't ready, it happens.
When I got divorced I didn't date for over a year and when I had a long term relationship end, it took me 5 months to be ready to date...and that was just someone I had lived with for a year.
When I met the right person I was ready to date.
Don't let anyone rush you, when the time is right for you, you will know.
2006-08-21 02:02:25 · answer #11 · answered by msdagney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋