Family & Relationships - 18 August 2006

why do girls want a guy that has a big d*ck i never understood that

2006-08-18 13:16:02 · 5 answers · asked by naspar21 1 in Singles & Dating

I am overweight but I see plenty of big women with husbands, how can I find or meet a good guy. I get sad when I see couples and I wonder what is wrong with me how come nobody wants me? I am a nice person clean and decent so what is wrong, why can't I get a good man?

2006-08-18 13:15:59 · 13 answers · asked by Joanne C 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been left for a blonde so I just want to know...
What's so special about blondes?

2006-08-18 13:15:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My aunt is getting married for the second time. She is in her forties, him in his fifties. they both have grown children and are quite well-off, so really don't need any of the traditional wedding gifts.

So my question is, what do I get them for a gift? I am quite a bit younger than them, so giving a monetary gift would be inappropriate. Any ideas???

2006-08-18 13:15:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

guy from louisiana. I thank i'm in love, but how do i know!?!?! HELP!!!!! have u eva been in a long distance relationship?!? Did it work out?!?

2006-08-18 13:15:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Tears come in my eyes whn I image:
wht if I had an elder brother ……

2006-08-18 13:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I took my children and moved to Florida,I have fought desperately just to survive in this state,I am to the point now that I cant even afford to get back home,I am not one to ask for help but I am at the end of my rope here.For months it has been sorrow and pain no matter how hard I try just for us to exist,can anyone out there help and to those that only provide wise cracks,I am already as low as it can get so please dont add to the pain of my family

2006-08-18 13:15:01 · 4 answers · asked by TAMMY M 2 in Family

2006-08-18 13:13:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do guys like them?

2006-08-18 13:12:21 · 13 answers · asked by bostonbabe124 2 in Singles & Dating

that's what makes our life so hard.
when something walks out from our life, that's the only moment when we become aware of what we had.

seems like we live in our dream of happiness all the time, and these, broken-up connections sometimes wake us.

now, i'm leaving my home, and my family. and there's only one thing thats on my mind. i need to be sure that they will be safe.
who knows what's waiting for me. but i know that there's one thing that's above my life. its them.
am i just suposed to stay tough, as i used to be? am i suposed to carry on telling them that their worries are so minor and that this voyage is nothing, though i'll come back in december.
in the end, seems like i'm the one who's acting like that.

how am i suposed to carry on, when being so deeply desperate about everything. i dont express it, i hardly speak to anyone about this.
just, have a feeling that i've never been much close to my family. now, like every good thing is showing its sad one...

2006-08-18 13:11:26 · 4 answers · asked by Kaja 2 in Family

And how old are you ?

2006-08-18 13:10:37 · 26 answers · asked by PR 4 in Singles & Dating

For as long as my guy and I have been together he has one night a week he hangs with his drinking pals. Sometimes I get invited, but I am always the designated driver. Better than having to bail someone out of jail.....but then there are nights when I want to go out and have a good time and I get the third degree. What's up with that? Anybody else out there have guys who have their little rituals but when you want to go and hang out they freak out on ya??

2006-08-18 13:10:21 · 12 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

im very bored what shuld i do for fun??

2006-08-18 13:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We met at age 15 I didn't think it would last long but it has. We have two beautiful daughters and now I think he should wait while I have my fun because he's had his fun. He slept with two women throughout our relationship but I still took him back.I admit I was a spy but when you have a feeling about something u have to find out the truth. I spoke with both women and they described his sex just right it was horrible. We have been together six years and not once have sex been over five minutes. I don't know what to do I have tried everything. My friends say that I'm a good woman and they would have cheated a long time ago. I don't know what it feels like to be pleased in bed. Were only 21 and that's too young for a persons sex life to be boring. I still love him but not like I used to. I'm unhappy and I want to leave but I think about having to start all over and having men around my children. Now he wants to get married and I have coldfeet. Should I leave once a cheat always a cheat.

2006-08-18 13:09:55 · 47 answers · asked by Unknown_1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey I am very cute plz talk to me

2006-08-18 13:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 13:07:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 6 years. We have been together for nearly 10 years. We have a 3 year old son. He is an excellent father, and a very hard worker, both around our home and at the job. I am still hot and turned on by him and he is still hot for me.

Here's the problem. He won't quit smoking pot. It affects his emotional state of mind. If he is without it for a day he screams at me over little things in front of our son. The last big argument he demanded I get out of the car and pulled over. I got out and then my son began screaming for me to get in as he took off. He did come back a few minutes later because our son was hyperventalating. We cannot have business discussions about our future goals, the checkbook, etc without him flying off the handle emotionally. He has been diagnosed with obsesive compulsive behavior and does not want to live on medication.
I used to smoke pot with him in the past. It is just this last year I have decided to be quit and be all I can be.

2006-08-18 13:07:36 · 24 answers · asked by tonya h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

touch yourself during intercourse?

2006-08-18 13:05:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and what you like about them.
thanks.

2006-08-18 13:04:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and My Boyfriend are talking about marriage. He is a Marine stationed in DC. I Turn 18 Next August and We Plan On Getting Married At The End Of August Or Early September Depending On When He Gets To Leave DC for North Carolina. It Sounds Great, But What Will It Be Like For Us After We Get Married? I Plan On Going To College And We Cant Decide If It Would Be Best For Me To Go With Him And Go To College There Or Stay In Our Home State And Go To College Here. Whats It Like Being Married To A Marine?...Any Information You Can Give Me Will Be Of Help..Thanks! (I may have more questions, im just so overwhelmed with it all, i cant think of them at the moment)

2006-08-18 13:04:14 · 4 answers · asked by sweetheart07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom won't let me have a t.v. in my room. She says its because I won't ever come out of my bedroom which is so untrue (I told her that by the way) any ideas on how to convince her?

2006-08-18 13:03:51 · 11 answers · asked by sara55423 1 in Family

Why, in a happy relationship of 2 years, does my boyfriend STILL look at porn?
I've caught him doing it several times and he denies everything, saying he "doesn't know" why he does it, or sometimes saying he didn't do it at all that day, but my computer's history says otherwise.
Why would a guy do that after he promised not to unless I have my monthly cycle (then I don't really care), or if I'm out of town? Why would he continue to do it after I've cried so many times and he knows it hurts me? Why do guys have to be ******* lying bastards? It seems even the most sincere and "good" guys out there have some serious issues and continue to blame women for being compulsive... he's the one who can't stop jerkin' it eventhought I'm in the next room and will do ANYTHING he wants, whenever. What the **** more do I have to do to please you stupid men?

2006-08-18 13:02:46 · 20 answers · asked by liinajax 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my friend's wedding and I'm the one that is giving her a bridal shower. Do I need to buy a gift for both the shower and the wedding? I would be happy too, but I don't want to anyone to think that I think that I'm better then them. I want to do the right thing. Please help!

2006-08-18 13:02:24 · 16 answers · asked by heavy_d_19 1 in Weddings

First off, I hate the word cheat & I would rather hear someone say that they were in a marriage and tied down to a family without being in love with their husband (or wife ). To me there is little difference between having children with someone you aren't married to and sleeping with another man (That seems to be okay) Vs. Sharing a house with someone you have children with and sleeping with another man (which makes you a whore).
Remember when we were single and trying to hook up with every good looking man we saw?
Then there is the sad fact of life that your husband (or wife) was the one who stood in front of God (as you put it, not every marriage happens in a church) and made promises that they couldn't keep. So you're saying that we just suck it up and be happy being $hit on day after day.

Remember there's kids and BOTH are the parents.

Sorry but I'm a bit fed up with some of the holier than thou questions and answers, most from people who will change in time? Comments?

2006-08-18 13:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is the first time I have been back to school in 35 years. Do any of you kind people have a word of encouragement for a brand new freshman? I am looking forward to my new venture with a super possitive attitude. I am a handicapped person, so I do not get around as easily as I use to. Does any one have any feedback or advice?
I humbly thank you.
Sincerely,
Jerry Hamilton aka
darkforestjerry@yahoo.com

2006-08-18 13:01:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-18 13:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by austin 1 in Singles & Dating

Is 1.5 to 2 hours normal intercours time or am i to quick?

2006-08-18 13:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by badbad_80 2 in Singles & Dating

I am turning 18 soon, and I have an uncontrollable crush on a man in his mid-thirties. Since I know nothing at all about male psychology, I was hoping that someone who knows might be able to answer this. Is it possible for a man (in his mid thirties) to have any kind of interest in an 18-year-old girl, or would he be way out of my league? Would you personally ever get involved with an 18-year-old?
Thanks.

2006-08-18 13:00:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does it always end in masturbation?

2006-08-18 12:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by OU812 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex fiancee moved out about two weeks ago. We have a beautiful son together. She gained 60 lbs post pregnancy and became depressed. She had lost interest in everything that we used to do including sex. Like a year and a half. During the pregnancy, which was a stressful time for both of us, we began to argue. Over the past year she stopped talking to me about our relationship and finances. I know that she has been depressed and I have tried to help her. All this has made me depressed in the process and now I feel like a failure. I tried to to talk to her over again about the relationship, but she would always change the subject. She also became very secretive with her computer, finances and cell phone. Now she blames me for the relationship going sour. I have asked her if there was someone else but she says there isn't. I have been supportive about the move, but she tells me she wants to try and work it out, but still doesn't know what she wants.

2006-08-18 12:58:09 · 10 answers · asked by el_donkeyman 1 in Marriage & Divorce