For as long as my guy and I have been together he has one night a week he hangs with his drinking pals. Sometimes I get invited, but I am always the designated driver. Better than having to bail someone out of jail.....but then there are nights when I want to go out and have a good time and I get the third degree. What's up with that? Anybody else out there have guys who have their little rituals but when you want to go and hang out they freak out on ya??
2006-08-18 13:10:21 · 12 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, At least you knew how things were and there's no new behavior. He may feel that the nights he wants to go with just the guys, that you are invading his space, being needy or whatever it is men think.
As long as he's cool with going out with the boys. Start a girls night out or a girls night in. Then your still getting to socialize instead of him maybe feeling your cramping his style.
Talk to him. Let him know you trust him. You just wanted to spend time with him. Good luck.
2006-08-18 13:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason you're tagging along on his "boys night out" ? Get a life and get some girls to hang with! The reason you are the designated driver is because he has to create a reason for you to come along without his boys complaining that he's whipped.
2006-08-18 13:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by P. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good for a couple to have their occasional nights out alone with their friends. Well when he wants to go out the next time give him the third degree. And when he asks you what that was all about you tell him that is what he does to you when you want to go out. See how he likes it. Good luck.
2006-08-18 13:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust him. But he always wants me with him. We hate being apart. We usually do things with a group of friends. If he did go out with the guys, he would be calling me all night to check on me. He would be worried about me all night.
2006-08-18 13:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's not a 'guy's go to the strip club night out'
Im cool
2006-08-18 13:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find this happens in reverse more with guys being ok with it and girls arn't.
Your man is lucky to have a girl like u who isnt jealous. Most girls are even jealous of guy friends let alone going out without them.
2006-08-18 13:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Don't have problems when my hubby go out with his friends because i do the same thing with my girls. We trust each other.
2006-08-18 13:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fine with me as long as they don't go to the strip club are something related to that.
2006-08-18 13:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's a little innocent fun and you trust him you shouldn't have a problem.
2006-08-18 13:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine with me.
2006-08-18 13:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋