she is gf 19 of my son 20.we'll call her Tina. i allowed her to move in, which was a mistake but i felt sorry for her because i was told she had no place to go. her aunt who had guardianship of her kicked her out. father is dead and i was told mom is a druggy and had no room for her. 5 months later she is pregnant. everyone is told by her to not say anything to anyone about it, not even her bestfriend because it would get back to her mother. supposedly she hasn't lived with her mom for yrs and didn't even get a call from her on her birthday or Christmas. mom lives close by too.
she started looking for work unsucessfully until all of a sudden her mom starts calling and telling her she can come work with her...like mom KNOWS she really needs help. my other son let it slip to her bestfriend that she was pregnant. she found out and cried for 2 hrs. she then went into a rage over the slip. i asked the father to be why was she so upset about it she should be happy and confident and that they were going to find out anyway. he and Tina just say cause her mom is a *****. they got the first sonagram the other day and the day after dear ole mom called to say they had a VCR for her to borrow and asked me if she had went to her doc appointment. i was stunned at her words and how casual she said it. why would Tina lie about her mom knowing the situation. Tina came in from work and i told her, her mom called and told her she asked about her appointment just to see her reaction and she disn't say a word. heres another tid bit. her mom has been lying to the government in order to get medicaid and food stamps. they did not report the fact Tina has moved out or something because she is still getting medicaid. Tina and my son are both working and i tried to tell them both that the medicaid would prb get cut out because of their income. Tina says "oh no they won't cause blah blah blah" and you can't tell her anything. whats going on here?
am i being used or do you think my son is fixing to get the shaft, because when the baby gets here she can get a lot of help...apartment, food stamps, child support.
don't get me wrong i am happy about the baby but i smell a little rat. i wonder if she is telling me one thing and her mom another. should i talk to the mom and break her trust. think about it she is living here free and we have paid insurance etc... to help her out. she is sweet but she has another side too her that is pretty calculating. what do you think?
2006-08-18
12:29:14
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