My bf hasn't called me for most of the summer, I thought he got rid of me. He called me a few nights ago, I was glad to hear from him again, but I like another guy. What should I do?
2006-08-18 12:30:54 · 41 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG, you waited the whole summer for this idiot......
I use to do this, and its so SELFISH.
Summer is here, so you blow off the person your dating. You want a chance at all the people out there, go to the beach and pick up babes, get drunk, party.
Summer is now coming to end, and now he thinks he can return back to you.
I would tell him: You didn't call me all summer, I moved on. I hope we can be friends, then say call me and leave.
If you let him do this, he will keep dumping on you and treating you like SH!T.
Good Luck
2006-08-18 12:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by mevanr8x7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would be honest. let him know you are happy that you are hearing from him but since there was so much time where you two didnt conect with each other you found someone else that filled that spot in your heart. Im not saying that you dont have feelings for him but he has to understand that you almost felt like he moved on and so you started to then he shows up when its best for him and thats not how a relationship works. if your long distance you still should have at least talked once a week or through emails often. do whats in your heart. if you know this new guy is going to be around more for you that might be your best choice.
but be honest when your honest there is nothing hidden for people to find out about later.
2006-08-18 12:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by JennyD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called you for most of the summer, he left you and had a summer fling. For whatever reason, that's over, and he expects to come back to you like nothing happened. If you're okay with him leaving you every once in awhile for some random girl, then coming back a few months later, then you take him back. But seriously, he's not your boyfriend anymore. Tell him you've found someone else.
2006-08-18 12:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well forget the jerk as he left u in heart and in person what kind of jerk is that .. heartless insensitve he must eb a tad bit slow handicapped or inhuman or gay .. go on with ur new guy perhaps he will like u enought to care. If you have a bf and they cant speak daily or every couple days then something aint right .. tell the old bf off what u went thru the waiting the whole dam summer ruined.. sounds like mine..
2006-08-18 12:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called you all summer then he wasn't thinking about you and,well, thats not what bf's do. Give this new guy a shot
2006-08-18 13:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by gismo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and get on with your life!
I know that's a duplicate but I couldn't have said it better. My Dad always told me that if I was going to steal, steal from the best. So that's what I did.
Seriously, unless this guy has spent the summer on a fishing boat in the Gulf of Alaska, what possible excuse can he have???? You moved on already. That was a wise thing to do, now just don't look back.
2006-08-18 12:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he hasn't called you all summer how can he still call himself your bf? Go for the guy who will actually give you what you deserve - attention.
2006-08-18 12:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he didn't call you at all the summer and finally he decided? I think you should dump him and go out with the other guy. Apparently he's not very interested in this relationship..
2006-08-18 12:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Romaneasca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(This is from a guy ... )
Continue seeing the other guy ... hopefully it will work out with him ... when summer's over, arrange to "casually meet" your old boyfriend at some public place, then wear the sexiest little nothing of an outfit you own. The experience will change your life.
2006-08-18 12:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, he did not call all summer because he was with another girl. do ever sit back and wait on a guy especially if you are not married to him.
2006-08-18 12:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by cmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋