We had an "okay" relationship, no regrets we just decided to let go (due to a pregnancy scare, we were young and stupid) A few months after, he started seeing an older woman. He was 21 and she was in her 40's. Now they are married. We'd see each other and say "HI" but thats it. We recently bumped into each other @ a nightclub, he was really anxious about it. "we really need to talk, I've been looking for you for a while now" he said. (I live out of the city now) Two days later we sat and talked in daylight @ a public place. He now claims that he never stopped thinking about me, he only moved on because I'd moved on (which I did) he's feeling like he's made a mistake. I really want him to save his marriage, you don't get up just because its hard! But I am beginning to feel that I am becoming a problem not the solution. So would I not be a good friend if I decided to step back and NOT to help anymore? There are certain boundtries in a "married ex" situation, so now what? Give up?
2006-08-17
03:55:41
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jaded_janae
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Marriage & Divorce