I'm been with this bloke for a year now and love him to bits, but lately my eyes have been wondering and i've started looking at other blokes in a sexual way, i feel like i'm cheating on him all the time!! and i think if i was offered sex by other men i would take it just like that. does that make me a bad person? I still wanna be with the guy i'm with though and really don't wanna split with him cos i love him.
2006-08-17 03:52:44 · 25 answers · asked by mememe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it just sex what you're looking for in other guys? If the answer is yes, then everything is fine. Men have been doing this and feeling this way for ages, that animal instinct that make them want to get laid with any walking hole with a pair of **** (no offense!). You're having this thoughts because we women are finally liberating from social pressures and facing that we like sex the same way men do. I know there are some women that need the emotional connection (I'm one of those), but if you don't need it, talk to your bf about having an open relationship, were you and him can have sex a couple of times a year or a month or a week with other people, just sex, just fluid exchange. I've read a lot about this and couples that are doing it are very happy with the results.
2006-08-17 04:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are acting like a man. OMG oh no :) Don't worry about it. Try to see why you aren't sufficiently satisfied with the sex in your relationship, but otherwise it may just be the weather. Relax. Guys go through it all the time. That is not however to say that your bloke would be very understanding.
2006-08-17 04:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your relationship has gone a little stale .. you need to liven it up or finish it.
I've been married for a hell of a long time but I know if I was offered no-strings sex by a woman I'd take the chance - so maybe it's just down to human nature.
You're not cheating on him because you haven't actually done anything and just thinking you'd have sex with another guy doesn't make you a bad person ... just a naughty redblooded person who should really have my mobile number ;-) lol
2006-08-17 04:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looking at other guys in a sexual way doesn't make you a bad person but if you acted on it that would be a problem. if you still love you boyfriend, you need to think about what is making you want to be with other men. maybe you guys should take a break so you can get yourself together.
2006-08-17 03:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to look as long as you dont touch or do it in front of him. if you really think you would go with a bloke if he offered it to you then you cant love your man. you need to do whats right for the both of you its not fair to your self if you wanna see other ppl and he should be able to go out and find someone who actually does love him
2006-08-17 04:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at other guys all the time, you can't help but be attracted to other people, he looks at other women believe me, but you sound like you're convincing youself that you love him and if you don't then leave him be and go get those guys you desire.
2006-08-17 03:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then offer to have sex wit him lol then if he does take it . . . boom u wont need 2 have sex with other blokes
2006-08-17 04:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by William Chalk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u r feeling is normal. U just feel atracted to other guys but u don't love them. So don't worry too much.
2006-08-17 03:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by olde finnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may love him but i dont think you are in love with him. brake it off with him before you cheat on him and that way you get to stay friends. when you meet someone you are in love with you would never want to sleep with anyone else.
2006-08-17 04:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by linz1663 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nohting wrong with window shopping, but if you really love the guy you are with you wont stray anyway. Something to think about....
2006-08-17 04:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by mrst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋