2006-08-17 03:50:48 · 58 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not good, but it happens all the time! but, when that happens, how many 2nd dates are there?
2006-08-17 03:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, the answer in morality terms is yes sex before marriage is wrong....duh! So if you are asking if it is wrong than the obvious question is yes! If you really mean is it socially accepted for you to sleep on the first date then I say other people don't really care. Although it isn't a good idea to sleep with someone you barely know. I mean these days you are taking a chance on getting a STD and serious things like HIV etc. So, the smart thing to do is wait.
2006-08-17 03:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dominika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you are looking for. If all you want is sex, then go right ahead. But be aware that you risk losing that person. If you want a lasting relationship, I would wait until you get to know the person better and are ready to make a lasting commitment.
2006-08-17 03:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened on my husabdn and I's first date and we liked it so much we have been married 3 1/2 years. It is my 2nd marriage and my husband's 3rd
2006-08-17 03:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Diana C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is up you ...just because it is the first date that dose not say how long you have known the person....I have known people for years before exactly goning out with them...and will feel good about having sex with them instead of people I have known for a week.
2006-08-17 04:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by The Gift 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont consider it is right to sleep with someone on a first date because u dont really know that person in a first place.better to know the person first and make sure that you love each other,dont do that just because both of you just like it ,do it because you love and really care each other
2006-08-17 04:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should at least wait till the second date. And make sure they take you out some where nice. And I'm not talking McDonald's.
2006-08-17 04:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by armywifeoftony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong... very wrong... if you will sleep with someone on your first date, why? i mean, if you love him (this is for the ladies okay) then make sure that everything will go on the way you want them to be...
2006-08-17 03:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by basti213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. It's not wrong in and of itself, but it can lead to attachment issues before both people really know each other. I think it's best to delay sex if you're looking for something serious. If not, well, go for it.
2006-08-17 04:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is absolutely wrong. You don't know the person yet, so I don't think the time would be appropriate. Do your parents know about and approve of that? I think that maybe you should wait a while into the relationship. Hope I helped you!
~N.T.
2006-08-17 03:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by [brown♥eyed♥girl] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. People just make a big deal out of something that isn't. It's not immoral or anything like that, as long as you both feel comfortable then I don't see anything wrong here.
2006-08-17 03:56:31 · answer #11 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋