This is from my last account: please.. my husband read that account:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhHNChkA5q2BA59UFaVDORnsy6IX?qid=20060816152834AAunVDl
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmxcWgD7AJJOUkFGC2bDGJbsy6IX?qid=20060810132703AAcisan
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvPbdDp73BBtocN_YBmx2o3sy6IX?qid=20060810114915AA56lae
2006-08-17 03:57:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Prayer.... prayer... and more prayer!
2006-08-17 04:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to get an understanding of your options. The husband must have found you attractive enough to make two kids. I'm sure he is no longer the picture perfect guy you hooked up with and time may not have been good to you. You should keep working on your appearance while dealing with the other things. Only you opened those legs and took on more responsibilities. Deal with it. It is not necessary to open more information. Your question says it all. The help you need in right there. Use the medication on the ADHD, keep the baby fed and changed and tell your husband to take it or leave it but you should try and look better. Having kids is no excuse to let yourself go. Not for him but for yourself. A properly maintained woman has more pride in herself and that builds strength to handle other things.
2006-08-17 11:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would take that first link off. I thought you were the asker of that question and I was going to say I pity your kids. Then I realized that maybe you answered.. and you did.
You need to talk to your husband about why he feels youre disgusting or are you assuming this? This is a communication problem, nothing that you can fix on your own. You need to talk to him RATIONALLY. Dont get defensive.
Your kids, well, you could get some councelling and information to help deal with adhd. The babe, well, he needs your attention as well as your husbands.
This all sounds like communication problems. Go find a group where you can have the lil one play and talk to others in this situation.
2006-08-17 11:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by senacia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you post the thing about jesus hating blacks?? If you did then its no wonder your husband finds you disgusting....
As for the step child with ADHD....What does the mother do to discipline her? Perhaps she needs to see a different doctor and put on a different medication. My daughter was on Concerta for 3 years.....Strattera has no stimulants in it and maybe that is what she needs if here ADHD is that severe. I understand you are tired with the new baby and having to deal with a child with special needs--you should find someone to talk to if you can't speak to your husband. If he doesn't support you and he has seen your step daughters behavior first hand, then I would refuse to do anything with her unless she could learn to control herself. Don't be afraid to ask for help...lord knows we all need it from time to time....
2006-08-17 11:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first question about the poop did not make sense. It was just mean spirited.
Your oterh questions it sounds like your husband is from outer space or soemthing.
Maybe counseling would help. pastoral care
I have delt with kids that are adhd...but never one like yours. Maybe counseling can help that too. Maybe your child was misdiagnosed and has autism.
just a thought...good luck
2006-08-17 11:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by MayberryNR5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried getting help for your adhd kid?its out there,and its for the kids benefit.love your new baby as you already seem to do and as far as your husband,does he not realize what goes into taking care of your babies,a house and trying to take care of a grown man?i was once in your position,and 4 kids and 26 years later,he had to go.the only time he had something nice to say was when things were going his way.took a long time for me to realize that his disgust for me was just his way of trying to get out of the marriage.now hes a free man and i found someone that loves me, my kids and my grandkids.
2006-08-17 11:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Martha A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I just read the old message links, and how do you execpt your child to be plesant with racist parents. Ignorance is taught! Your husband probably don't like you because your so mean.
2006-08-17 11:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I felt bad for you until I read you first question. You are an ignorant fool and you need help!
2006-08-17 11:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first link leads to some seriously racist question. fyi.
2006-08-17 11:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need some counseling!
2006-08-17 14:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋