put they girlfriend on some test,whats is the reason for such test,i just realised my fiancee set me a test according to him i passed very well,but i was not happy,so please why do men do this?
2006-08-17 03:49:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lack of trust
2006-08-17 03:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by clair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is fairly unusual. Men normally select YES or NO based almost entirely on visible genetic factors such as waist to hip ratio/ big eyes/ breasts in proportion to body/ intelligence/ lack of parasites on skin/ height/ shiny long hair and the like.
Because men don't display their sexual charecteristics as physically as women, girls will often "test" men though this is normal not conciously done.
Unusual case. I would like to hear more.
Viking xxx
2006-08-17 04:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Viking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously people! Like it or not everyone tests their partner in a relationship. Usually it is more subtle. I have never announced that I was testing them or told them "you passed!". That sounds a bit immature. An example of a test: I am friends with a few of my ex's, in particular one. We were in a relationship for 6 years and our breakup was mutual and amicable. I can't imagine what life would be like if he wasn't still my friend. He is an important part of my life. Had my current boyfriend reacted badly to our friendship based on our past relationship and shown any distrust on his part or asked me to stop talking to him, I would have made the decision to move on. He passed the test, showing that he trusts me and understands the bonds of friendship. Everyone keeps a pros and cons sheet in the back of their head. It lets you make an informed decision about whether or not the relationship is right for you.
2006-08-17 04:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief, what kind of test? Nobody has ever given me a test or none of the women I know have gotten a test
2006-08-17 03:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Amy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we're insecure tw**s with nothing better to do!
If he feels you should have a test, you should give him a test of his own - like finding another girlfriend because you don't want to have the humiliation of some stupid "initiation"!
2006-08-17 04:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Because he has anxieties that he has not dealt with.
Testing you seems to be a way by which he can ignore
his lack of trust in you and maybe others around him then
if things go wrong he can give responsiblity away by claiming
that it was all another test, which of COURSE you fail leaving
him blameless as the fault is yours and not his.
Who appears on a facile level to be the winner ?, him, it is
a game and one I would suggest you stop playing before it
becomes even more harmful to you.
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2006-08-17 04:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not all a test that you past or fail. sometime we are expecting to see some treats or character, upon seeing it we say, well down you have past the test. It's nothing to be concerned over,past or fail you will still be loved.
2006-08-17 04:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by junior23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wants to see if your truthful,I'm not saying it's right but this is his whole life that were talking about,sure he's scared of getting hurt but he has to know if your really the one.I can only hope that you told him how you feel and that you find it in your heart to forgive him.Hope it all works out,good luck.
2006-08-17 03:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to see if you are worthy. There are many woman out there, so we can pick and choose at random. The test is a way to see if you are worthy enough to stay
2006-08-17 03:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A test? well i know i dont, may be you're boyfriend is some kind of freak
2006-08-17 03:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by Blade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To test how much you are caring and loving person you are
2006-08-17 03:54:28 · answer #11 · answered by Mr X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋