Family & Relationships - 15 August 2006

If you received seven white calla lillies from a secret admirer, what would you think about that? Also, what would you like to see on the card? What if he sent you flowers every three weeks or so?

2006-08-15 13:25:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonyman 3 in Singles & Dating

From Liverpool'd Be handy

2006-08-15 13:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by michaelcarterv2 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married over 7 years and my husband supports my daughter which is his step daughter in return it is putting alot of strain on us my exhusband won't pay child support/medical but demands his vistitations. He is behind in thousands for child support and is scamming the system. I have no idea what else to do?

2006-08-15 13:24:35 · 6 answers · asked by jeweljersey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This young man is an excellent worker and I want to know if you guys think an average of $10.00 an hour is good enough pay. I always feed him good but want to know if we are fair with him - thanks

2006-08-15 13:23:26 · 20 answers · asked by Janis G 5 in Family

ok so we were friends. he was younger to me, i was married, he used to listen to me and was sensitive to my problems. my husband didnt like it though i used to explain to my husband that we are friends and later on he was fine. one day he said he is getting married and he wont be talking to me and i cried..he weaned away from me and finally he deleted me(he said he went away bec there were problems)and he had joked abt sex wtih me so i called him a player and he said u used me as emotional dumpyard. and we had terrible fight with abuses etc. we stopped talking for one year. he returned after an year and apologized. but he returned only when he knew that i was very angry and he got scared that i might screw him. he came explaining hsi scenario. he never wanted to be my friend but he said he cared. and care should be built step by step. right now i m trying to remove the bitterness. i was reluctant..but then i and he used to talk casual stuff daily. no intimacy though

2006-08-15 13:22:35 · 10 answers · asked by dsnmstis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating this girl i really liked for 5 weeks then she dumped me & now is going out with a guy i work with, my mates say because i didnt shag her thats the reason she dumped me, I said I respected her & wanted to take my time, who right me or them?

2006-08-15 13:22:30 · 26 answers · asked by Lynx 2 in Singles & Dating

and should there be a wedding and engagement ring ?

2006-08-15 13:21:44 · 24 answers · asked by eli 1 in Weddings

i am the biological father and was living with them when she died.my daughter is afraid to come home but i want her here with me.this family friend thinks she gonna keep my daughter

2006-08-15 13:21:32 · 7 answers · asked by e_z_e_man 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like, if you're trying to check out a guy or if he comes up to you and starts talking-- what are the things that are turn-ons for you or things that make the guy more attractive to you?

2006-08-15 13:20:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well most of my friends dont have a computer so i have no one to email or talk too,so i was wondering if someone would like to be my friend on here girl or guy dont matter to me.. and if u do give me your email address i WILL email u. :-) oh ya and im 13.

2006-08-15 13:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-15 13:20:43 · 11 answers · asked by Watermelon Punch 3 in Friends

what a day. i tell ya, us men we need to learn how to control our anger in a better way. i just got off the pc talking with my gf. and i blew up over some pretty stupid stuff. feel like a total di-ck now. i love her alot and really need to find a way to treat her the way she deserves.

i guess my question is does anyone have good ways to deal with anger. as i need some major alternatives. to being an ******** to her.

2006-08-15 13:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by chris s 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 13:20:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-15 13:20:16 · 9 answers · asked by ♥michele♥ 7 in Family

guys temme something except for sex(well dat too) that u really want a girl doin wit u?

2006-08-15 13:19:44 · 9 answers · asked by Angel to da rescue 3 in Singles & Dating

Tell them as soon as you believe they can understand that you will sometimes lie to them and sometimes tell them the truth but they will probably never fully know whats what but that you will always love them. Doesnt that sound like something you would have liked to hear when you were a kid instead of having to figure it out yourself the hard way. By telling them you will lie and tell the truth you are really letting them know they cant trust you. But when they realize this they will understand that there is no reason not to trust you. This might open communication lines for your child ect ect...

2006-08-15 13:19:28 · 2 answers · asked by magpiesmn 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ihave been marry 11 years and I had to leave because it was beginning the be a mental abuse. My husband never wanted me to have anything. He would only paid half rent which is 400.00. in the household. he started to ignore me slam door take furntiure out of the house and put in in storage so me and my 2 grils would sit on it . didn't want company to come over or my family. he would slam door and go upstair in the bedroom. so I left. this been going on for a while. I moved out into another place and he moved right behind me in the complex townshouse. he moved into a one bedroom townhouse and bought big screen tv, computer, front load washer and dryer take his furnture out of storage and started fix up his place. never care really how i was living with him. he tell the kids momma mess the family out she moved out. when they go over there no place for them to slept. one sleep with him the another on the sofabed,. he is really living it up. why did he shut me out.

2006-08-15 13:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-15 13:18:44 · 25 answers · asked by inky 2 in Singles & Dating

One friend of my husband is really pissing me off. He calls him when he's already at our house in the parkinglot and asks if he can come by or he tells him he will come by and then he doesn't come. I mean, we're waiting for him (like when he says he'll come for dinner or so). I told my husband to stop him from bullshiting us like that. But he doesn't wanna tell him. He's also trying to get him out to clubs and to Hooters and everywhere where "hot chicks" are. To me it looks like he's trying to let someone take him away from me. That's just an example. Hope you guys understand. And give some advice.

2006-08-15 13:17:48 · 21 answers · asked by pearl_682 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Punishment such as time out has no effect . This child hurts her mother her baby brother, pets she does it on purpose and she is punished for it consistantly but it hasn't stopped the behaviour and time out has been used for a year and it hasn't worked.

2006-08-15 13:17:25 · 19 answers · asked by Raymond R 1 in Family

2006-08-15 13:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 13:16:30 · 12 answers · asked by queenpaparazzi 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known this boy for awhile now. We are pretty good friends. The thing is, I REALLY like him. I mean I am nearly in love with this boy. But, I am too afraid to tell him. On his Myspace survey in his bulletin it says that he likes someone far away. So, I know it isn't me.

Because we live close to each other. And, I am just afraid of him rejecting Me. It seems like everytime I do something, I always think of him. No matter what it is. My friend thinks I should tell him. But what do you think I should do?

Or, if you think I should tell him . . . How should I go about doing it?

Thanks

2006-08-15 13:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by meganxrenee07 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom with two children with Down Syndrome ~ I am a professional woman with an MBA, a great job, attractive, and well on my way to success. I am fun to be around and a very good catch as told by my friends. I want to get back in the dating seen but I want to know if having two children with Down syndrome is going to scare people off. I guess if it does I'll know that they aren't the one for me anyway right?

2006-08-15 13:14:26 · 18 answers · asked by GoBucks!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 13:14:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with this guy for almost a year. Well, this past weekend we went to the fair and this girl walked up to him and started fighting with him because he was there with another girl. From what I heard from the fight i guess he was with her the whole time me and him were together..in other words he was playin both me and her. Well, after that fight was over I told him I was done with him playin me.. That night he ended up goin home with the other girl and she stayed at his house the whole weekend and part of the week after that. I dont know what to do, I want him back but I dont want him playin me anymore. I also dont want to look dumb to him by saying that I want him back after what I told him. Can someone please help me figure out what to do? I dont know what to say to him..

Oh, and the day after that fight went down I called him to try to talk about everything and he told me there was nothing to talk about. Does that mean he doesnt want me anymore?

2006-08-15 13:14:12 · 17 answers · asked by BonitaNala 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 13:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by J S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my Grandmother had offered to pay for the rest of my college tuition. In celebration of the fact that I got a good report card last semester, she wanted to tell me she was paying the rest of my tuition by taking me out to dinner. She let me get anything I wanted- so I ordered a shrimp appetizer, and a T-Bone steak (large cut of course), and a soup and salad combo- u know salads are good for ya. I also was allowed dessert. I wanted a banana split. Anyways here's the part that makes me mad. Before digging in, my Grandma wanted to know if she could have some. I told her "No" in a polite manner, and started digging in. My Grandma told me she loved banana splits, and if I could just let her taste some. I finally got irratated and told her to order her own damn banana split, that I was hungry and for her to leave me the hell alone. After I was done eating it, my Grandmother told me she refused to pay my tuition because I was a brat that needed to learn manners. Was she right to do this?

2006-08-15 13:12:40 · 29 answers · asked by mrs sunshine 1 in Family

2006-08-15 13:12:33 · 18 answers · asked by Katie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What gets you more hot. His physical body, or his presence and the atmosphere?

2006-08-15 13:11:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating