Ive been with this guy for almost a year. Well, this past weekend we went to the fair and this girl walked up to him and started fighting with him because he was there with another girl. From what I heard from the fight i guess he was with her the whole time me and him were together..in other words he was playin both me and her. Well, after that fight was over I told him I was done with him playin me.. That night he ended up goin home with the other girl and she stayed at his house the whole weekend and part of the week after that. I dont know what to do, I want him back but I dont want him playin me anymore. I also dont want to look dumb to him by saying that I want him back after what I told him. Can someone please help me figure out what to do? I dont know what to say to him..
Oh, and the day after that fight went down I called him to try to talk about everything and he told me there was nothing to talk about. Does that mean he doesnt want me anymore?
2006-08-15 13:14:12 · 17 answers · asked by BonitaNala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there. i think u need to forget about this guy. i know u probably dont want to hear it but it sounds like he has chosen the other girl over u. your worth more than second best so let him be and find a guy that will rate you first best!!
2006-08-15 13:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by jiveybaby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm i think that he needs time to rethink everything. sounds like u do too. do u really want him? i just was dumped by this guy i thought i couldnt live without but now im feeling great. ok back to u. um well i would try to find out where this chick lives so that maby u could go over and talk to him about this. or call him either way. im not sure if he doesnt want u or not. im kinda thinkin he doesnt though. but im not 100% sure. if he makes no effort to talk to u then so be it. u dont need someone klike that. i didnt. i hope u the best of luck with this ordeal.
crossing my fingers for u
TT
2006-08-15 20:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tik~Tak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes baby, that is exactly what he means. Anytime a man gets into a confrontation with 2 women around and he leaves with the other you should know where you stand. (on the outside). He respects the other women more. Move on sweety, he's not worth it. Also respect the women for doing the right thing by getting in his face this should be an eye opener. Let her continue getting played not you.
2006-08-15 20:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mee Mee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know what you mean: I used to have a guy that played me well jus talkin to his ex behind my back pretty f*** up if you ask me so...
But i cant even get over my man so i dont know what to say excpet keep you rhead high and try your best not to call him...I know its hard but he'll come back around when he realizes what he has now isnt all that or when he realizes he lost something good... But when he does dont give in so easily and lay down the law...
Cause i know what it feels like to be played...
And know it's okay to cry...I cry every nite cause not understanding why but my man left me cause well he doesnt want to settle down moreless he just wants to go sleep wit who ever then later on come back to me
Just try to be happy :) and try to hold on you know even though its hard
2006-08-15 20:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by lovergirl86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl this guy stopped wanting you along time ago. You def need to get over him he's a major jerk who's brought alot of drama to you you don't need that in your life. The best way to get over him is to throw away everything that is his and reminds you of him and to not call him answer his calls or visit him or let him visit you. And if you see him out just walk away and ignore him.
2006-08-15 20:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by metal_punk_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be with a man that is playing you. that never turns out good that turns a lot of girls against you, which won't resolve anything. but the best way to heal you emotional wound would be TIME!
2006-08-15 20:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don`t know try calling him and see if he want you are not ,and if he tell you there nothing to talk about.try to let him go ,and find someone that you can care about and one day love then.i know it will hurt to let him go but the hurt gos away in time. just go with your heart it will tell you if it `s right are not.
2006-08-15 20:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is...
"Once a player, always a player"
at least in my rulebook.
This guy is scum, leave him alone. Dont even waste your time with someone like him.
2006-08-15 20:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by hello_earth@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never easy....you just have to give it time and stay busy doing other things that you did not do together to help you not think of him.
2006-08-15 20:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest way to get over a guy is with a pickup truck you might not make it over him with a car
2006-08-15 20:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by tattoo282001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋