2006-08-15 13:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by J S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The "single" life is different for everyone. My suggestion would be to just go out and do what you like to do. If you happen to meet some interesting people along the way, thats a bonus. Too many people go out with an agenda to meet a mate. My advice would be to not worry about that and just have fun with your new found freedom.
2006-08-15 13:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is getting out and making friends with others that are single. It's ok to keep your couple friends, but you are single and need people like yourself to go out with. Go to bars, clubs, the gym, shopping, coffeehouses, and anywhere else you can meet people. Be open, and extroverted, and let your friends set you up once in a while. It's always hard at first, but it will get easier if you keep and open attitude.
2006-08-15 20:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rayslittlegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can find single life fun if you look at it like this.. You are the boss now in your home.. dating and who you date and when is now your choice... you also have the experance to know that when dating.. men put their best foot forward in the beginning.. all good things do come to a end.. don't rush your self.
2006-08-15 21:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ibdreamin099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you should be so ready to mingle. go to th spa get your hair nail and feet get toghether with some single girlfriends and have dinner or drinks. You are now totally and completely focused on you have fun
2006-08-15 20:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Khais Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been living with someone for 16yr and he irritates the crap out of me all the time.
if you dont want to deal with your spouse no matter what and dont want to compromise or talk it over. nothing works anymore.
then time for a divorce and then you can be single UNLESS you have kids. then you can never be "single" again.
2006-08-15 20:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't categorize your life into "i'm single" and "i'm married", that will drive you crazy because there's no upside to that. When you're married, you're not thinking about that. You're only thinking about it if you're down in the dumps. Just move on, that's the only way.
2006-08-15 20:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by billysimas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
organise yourself and decide what youlike to do in the future.
leave the past behind while learning its lessons and not falling into the unpleasantness again?
be happy whatever you do and never be too scared to venture. have some self confidence.
thats the basics of it, good luck.
2006-08-15 20:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i m so sorry you have to go thru this..its hard. but then after initial loneliness you will actually get used to it and start enjoying. i believe you will feel the sense of freedom u might have missed on being married. its all in mind.
2006-08-15 20:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by dsnmstis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time. Don't just jump into another relationship, take time for your self, and when you ae ready you will no.
2006-08-15 20:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start doing things that enrich your life....
take that class you always wanted to take...
hang out with your girlfriends...
get a make-over and feel great about yourself...
....now you get to live life for YOU and YOU only....enjoy it while it lasts!
2006-08-15 21:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by SNAP! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋