2006-08-15 13:18:44 · 25 answers · asked by inky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I don't have a g/f and I want this girl to by my g/f/
2006-08-15 13:28:32 · update #1
That is girlfriend/boyfriend stuff not friends stuff,you need to make up your mind cuz you are sending mixed signals to this girl.
2006-08-15 13:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by movin12006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok inky! If she's your friend holding hands is out of the question. She may feel pressured and if her feelings are not similar to yours, you ma lose her friendship. What you should do is ask her" hey do you have any cute girlfriends you can set me up with?" At that moment, if she likes you enough, she should be asking why you don't wanna be set up with her. The key to women is patience and you've gotta get them to the point where they are chasing you. What you should do wiith this friend that you've gone out with a few times already is keep your hands to yourself! That means no holding hands, no touching her hair, shoulders or ANY other parts of her body. Even if she starts touching you, which is a good sign you still keep your hands to yourself. The reason for this is that most women have had guys trying to touch them since they were twelve years old. You will be different and ask her out, take her out and never try to feel her up. She will then start asking herself "does inky like me?" That's when you've got her attention. Hey I'm online for the next 30 or so minutes. Send me msg if you wanna chat so I don't end up writing a book on here. You should also definitely go to www.doclove.com and after listening to one or two of the archived radio shows, ordre the "System". You will get an in-depth understanding of women that most men never achieve in a whole lifetime! I won't be online for long so if you want this opportunity move fast!
2006-08-15 13:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If either one of you is dating someone else, I think it's cheating to hold hands, no matter how innocent it is meant to be. At the very least, it'll cause unnecessary jealousy in those relationships, so it's not worth it. If you're both single and you're pursuing her, that's fine - because it is a nice, simple intimate act. It's ok to call her honey and sweetie if you do that to everyone and she doesn't find it derogatory.
2006-08-15 13:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No by holding her hand and calling her sweetie your sending mixed signals. She'll soon fall in love with you and then you'll
prob still just want to be her friend and then you'll lose her.
Trust me big no no. I'm a girl and a guy did this to me.
2006-08-15 13:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by metal_punk_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live south of the Mason-Dixon line, so "honey" and "sweetie" are commonplace in my life, even between me and my friends.
I would not recommend being the one to *initiate* hand-holding, though, especially if she is single and looking. A casual observer would see the two of you holding hands and assume she is taken, which may cause her to miss out on some fabulous opportunities. If she starts it, though, have fun!
2006-08-15 13:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by Katie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I have been going through the same thing with a guy friend of mine. We've known each other, like, forever. Literally. We grew up together. And I was (and still am) really attracted to him. Like, in love with him. We held hands and had pet names for each other and it was all cool cuz we knew each other so well, you know. Eventually, I got up the guts to tell him how I felt, and...guess what...we're together now! :-D So (sorry about the babbling), if you really like this girl (that way) you might want to consider talking to her about your relationship. However, think about it first before you broach the topic, cuz you don't want to ruin a great friendship.
2006-08-15 13:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell, I call girls honey and sweetie all day long, even if I don't know their name or even if I do. you can't forget their name if you call them sweetie all day. didn't you watch john tucker must die.
( I was forced into watching it , but it was kinda funny)holding hands is usually a little more than friends in our culture, in other cultures it is fine.and means nothing.
2006-08-15 13:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay to hold your friends hand, but if you have an girlfriend I advise you not to hold her hand because your girlfriend is going to make it seem like yall go together.
2006-08-15 13:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by kita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Who doesn't like to be called sweetie?
2006-08-15 13:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by evayne_9731 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting.
2006-08-15 13:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋