ok so we were friends. he was younger to me, i was married, he used to listen to me and was sensitive to my problems. my husband didnt like it though i used to explain to my husband that we are friends and later on he was fine. one day he said he is getting married and he wont be talking to me and i cried..he weaned away from me and finally he deleted me(he said he went away bec there were problems)and he had joked abt sex wtih me so i called him a player and he said u used me as emotional dumpyard. and we had terrible fight with abuses etc. we stopped talking for one year. he returned after an year and apologized. but he returned only when he knew that i was very angry and he got scared that i might screw him. he came explaining hsi scenario. he never wanted to be my friend but he said he cared. and care should be built step by step. right now i m trying to remove the bitterness. i was reluctant..but then i and he used to talk casual stuff daily. no intimacy though
2006-08-15 13:22:35 · 10 answers · asked by dsnmstis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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one day he stopped responding to my ims..i think he has deleted me. before that he had talked casually and also had said that he is busy..but even when he had been very busy he never missed my ims..
do u think this guy was genuine or he played with me?
why do u think he deleted/blocked me?
thanks
2006-08-15 13:23:24 · update #1
to all of u.
if he was player why was i deleted??
i was friendly..
nope i was not really interested in this person or i wouldnt have been so angry. i was interested bec he was my best friend?
ok?
anything else?
2006-08-15 13:49:04 · update #2
what do you care? you're married.
2006-08-15 13:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Erik E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way i see this, you both were getting some thing out of this friendship. You were married at the time and he listen to your problems etc........There is so much to a relationships that to make a long sentence short. Listen to your gut feelings and go from there. You alone know what his words and support did for you in the past and the decision is yours to make a lone as to make back with him or not.
2006-08-15 20:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre a bit self centered ...arent you married?
The guy was genuinly interested in getting a 'piece'. Get a girl friend to talk to.
2006-08-15 20:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are one very mixed up and confused woman...you are married and yet took this guy seriously...it was only a bit of fun for him but you scard him off by being all emotional...get over it
2006-08-15 20:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by lippygloss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question one:
The guy was playing around and got in too deep.
Question two:
He deleted you.
2006-08-15 20:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is a player and you should be thrilled that he is gone. Move on with your life as he is definalty moving on with his.
2006-08-15 20:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you are married ,,who cares about that fool anyways? he played you and you look bad being that you are married. stay away from him and block him as well. tend to your marrige!!!
2006-08-15 20:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playa, Playa, Playa!! Run sister!
2006-08-15 20:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by jiffypop88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you! Stop the madness!
2006-08-15 20:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by KIMBO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the answer,just not sure how to put it in words,I do understand its?
2006-08-15 20:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋