Family & Relationships - 14 August 2006

together? Assuming you want a possible relationship and are not just sleeping around. (Not a judgement about anyone).

2006-08-14 12:10:35 · 15 answers · asked by wolfmusic 4 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend but i barely ever see him! i can't take it no more i need to let him go but i don't know how. i'm afriad i'll hurt his feelings. he should understand tho.

2006-08-14 12:10:26 · 12 answers · asked by Lashay 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my bf for 5 & half months now. I thought things were going great. Till I began noticing some things. Well, I thought I would I guess you can say "Test" him. Him & I are sexual quite a bit. I thought I would see how he would act if I didn't be sexual with him for a while. So I have not be sexual with him for four days now. I can tell he really wants me. He keeps trying with me, but I'm still not giving in. Now he seems less happy with me. He has this attitude like his annoyed or something. He hardly talks to me. Do you think he's only in this relationship for the sex? He tells me he loves me & all this..I just don't know anymore...I NEED SOME EDVICE!!! ASAP!!!

2006-08-14 12:09:55 · 44 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to chat a couple years ago on yahoo. There were some "user rooms" that were ok. are there any chat rooms that you would recomend that have mature adults in them and not so many bots?

2006-08-14 12:09:19 · 5 answers · asked by serfblues 2 in Family

Ok, here's my story.....I had it pretty rough growing up, both of my parents were drugatics and alcoholics (my dad more than my mom). My dad however was a violent drunk and very mean and threatening and had been to jail/prison more times than I can count. He's burnt down our house, wrecked every car we've owned and destroyed everything and would always threaten to kill with a butcher knife he had. We were also pretty poor. We lived in this crappy trailer that didn't have heat, water, electricity or anything. We heated our "house" with a kerosine heater which is also what we cooked our food on and we used the bathroom outside using a pile of cement blocks for support and I slept on the floor. When I was 12 my mom finally decided to leave my dad but when she did that all she did was jump out of the frying pan into the fire. She started dating a guy that was a dope dealer and had been in prison for rape among other things. He was an awful perve. After he tried to hit me one night I finally had had enough and walked to my mamaws house and lived with her for a while. My mom finally got her act together after about a year of dating the idiot and so did my dad. My dad even went back to highschool and got his degree, got baptised and started going to college to become a counselor, but he still got messed up sometimes and would end up in the hospital. Then, a month before my 14th birthday he died. Ok, this isn't all to my story but its all I'm going to write because to tell you about everything thats happened I would need a book. Ok, here's my problem....I think I'm too picky. I have seen so many failed relationships and I just don't want that to happen to me. I'm 17 years old and have never had a boyfriend because I always find something amatter with them. I'm just afraid of being heartbroken. What should I do? I don't want to end up lonely when I get older, but I don't want to be heartbroken either.

2006-08-14 12:09:13 · 19 answers · asked by Led*Zep*Babe 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this man for 10 years on and off. In the last year we've been living together. An old lady of 78 years old told me she did him. I asked him if it was true and he said no....that the old lady was crazy. He is 47 and I am 40. I found out this weekend that it was true that he did sleep with her. He did that 3 years ago....Would you talk to him about it or just laugh your head off.

2006-08-14 12:08:52 · 9 answers · asked by this is life 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you do that makes you good?

2006-08-14 12:08:07 · 5 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to fall in love with someone like your father and 15 years older than you? What's your experiences? both good and bad ones

2006-08-14 12:06:18 · 11 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend jamie and i have been like peas in a pod since i moved schools in my second grade year. sh has stuck with me through thick and thin and i love her like a sister. the problem is that we got some new girls this year and they have pretty much taken over the school. they are pretty and rich and VERY mean to me. they won't talk to me at all just stick their noses up in the air and walk past me. jamie has noticed their popularity and has gotten very close with them lately. i'm scraed that she will ditch me for them. what should i do?

2006-08-14 12:06:01 · 10 answers · asked by Shay 2 in Friends

I have a much higher sex drive than my husband of five years (he’s 51, I’m 46). I have learned that I can’t initiate sex because he feels threatened or out of control or something like that. I end up feeling unwanted and rejected. How do I put this guy in the mood without him knowing that is what I am doing, so that he thinks it is his idea and gets back his animal instinct?

2006-08-14 12:05:51 · 18 answers · asked by Tammie R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he's been told on by 3 people that he was smoking at the park. 2 days later he fessed up. now he was told on again by a diffent 3 people that he was the one that colored on my daughters doll. he is sitting at the tabel right now telling me that he didn't do it. he's 15.

2006-08-14 12:05:44 · 20 answers · asked by elmirah33 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 12:03:39 · 22 answers · asked by tilman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you deal with your 15 yr old telling you they want to live with their father, who they just started having visitation with and the fathers all for it? how does a mother let go of their only 15 yr old and she feels like shes being betrayed all over again .it like relivng all those old memories of my ex leaving me and my son

2006-08-14 12:03:11 · 15 answers · asked by pkuchick 4 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this girl and we go to school together and well it's hard to admit it but we used to be best friends. and now she took my new best friend and they both dumped me. so now i have a new and forever best friend and we are figthing with the other two. now idon't know if i should forgive the two girls or keep not likeing them . what should i do?

2006-08-14 12:02:14 · 8 answers · asked by CINDERELLA GURL 1 in Friends

2006-08-14 12:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of one year just moved to Las Vegas from Wisconsin. We had to endure being seperated by 2 hours while I was in college. Now he had to move back home with his mom because he had some financial problems. We really love each other. We plan to eventually getting married. I want to know what we can do now to be able to get through not getting to see each other and talk to each other as much as we use to? We will probably be apart for over a year?

2006-08-14 12:01:36 · 21 answers · asked by mustangbaby_05 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 12:01:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, here is the DL, this guy.. likes me.. and i thought i liked him.. but once i got to know him better.. it was NOT meant to be.. he keeps calling me and IMing me adn talking to me at school.. but im really not interested anymore. i know it was wrong to lead him on.. but i needed attention bc i dont get it from anyone.. =\ homecoming is soon.. and he told my BFF he was going to aks me.. i dont want to go with him.. how do i say no? and how do i back out of this relationship/thing without hurting him badly? HELP!

2006-08-14 12:01:25 · 13 answers · asked by carl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 12:00:44 · 26 answers · asked by tglitter 1 in Family

My boyfriend has a habit of just not coming through on the little things. But if it's something big like paying my tuition, buying school supplies, a car, and starting a co-owned business he's great. Now, the little things like calling as often as I want...he can't seem to handle. I want to marry him. Can he be a good husband? Because he's a semi-awful boyfriend?

2006-08-14 12:00:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 12:00:36 · 48 answers · asked by juicylucy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 12:00:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 12:00:18 · 10 answers · asked by CHANCES_GIRL 1 in Singles & Dating

If it is, to what degree in a relationship is it acceptable? (we`re talking about a guy being jealous. Womens jealousy is harmless)

2006-08-14 12:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by ALittleLight 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-14 11:59:48 · 21 answers · asked by tglitter 1 in Family

my bf is going to china for 3 months
what do u think, can it work? will he cheap
what would u do if u were a man,
mens opinions appriciated

2006-08-14 11:59:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

don't say 3 because that is just too much, been there... can't focus

2006-08-14 11:59:34 · 16 answers · asked by Luis T 3 in Singles & Dating

ok theres this dude i really really love and i know he really reallly loves me but im afraid to ask him out because im really afraid of being rejected lol but yea and i don't ask guys out i let them ask me out but i really really love him and well u can tell im confused lol but what should i do and i known him for like a long time we tell each other everything lol but yea what should i do

2006-08-14 11:59:30 · 7 answers · asked by lil sad diva princess 2 in Friends

i have a theory that guys don't truly feel like Men if they can't be the one to pay for most of the dates.... if the woman pays too often, even if she makes more, eventually the guy feels weirded out and acts funny. is this true?

2006-08-14 11:58:20 · 10 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6 in Singles & Dating

I've asked some questions earlier, and been reading some questions on the "cycle of abuse". I've found that on this site most people that say if a (abused as a child) adult starts abusing a child, that it is his own fault, because he chose that path.

Now basically is this saying that we should be all free to abuse whoever we feel like because it would be that victims reasonability to chose weather or not he or she likes to abuse other people?

What exactly about percentages and statistics here, it is statistically more likely for a person that has been abused as a child, to repeat the behavior (as well a, I actually cannot find the source with a percentage but here are a few that support what I’m saying.

This question is really not meant to cause an argument, nor disrespect anyone, I’m doing a final (report) for my criminal justice class, and I want to see another persons view.

http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art29945.asp
http://www.prevent-abuse-now.com/stats.htm#Chil

2006-08-14 11:58:05 · 3 answers · asked by D 4 in Family