I've been with this man for 10 years on and off. In the last year we've been living together. An old lady of 78 years old told me she did him. I asked him if it was true and he said no....that the old lady was crazy. He is 47 and I am 40. I found out this weekend that it was true that he did sleep with her. He did that 3 years ago....Would you talk to him about it or just laugh your head off.
2006-08-14 12:08:52 · 9 answers · asked by this is life 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Shyt!!!! Girl first off he lied...no telling what else he lied to you about...Well you are older than I and have a better mindset on this situation....But in all he cheated on you...!! Then by you shrugging it off he will think its ok and probably tells his friends how you accept his actions...maybe in a way that isnt too pleasing to you....You know how men are...maybe you should think twice about this guy....I know I would...
2006-08-14 12:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I'd laugh my *** off that he did an old lady. Then I'd kick his *** for lying. OK maybe not kick his ***, but I'd want to know why he felt he needed to lie about something that happened 3 years ago. Also it would depend on whether or not 3 years ago you were in a relationship with him. But Really I'd want to know more about why he lied about it.
2006-08-14 19:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Shirley B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely would be asking some questions. If he would sleep with someone 41 years older than he is I would assume he doesn't have many standards and he has slept with many others as well. Sorry, I hope the best for you.
2006-08-14 19:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by eh00buckeye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say confront him. You;ve been with this guy for 10 years, but if he hid this from you, what else could he be hiding?! If you let this slide, he'll just think "she'll forgive me " for every time he does something unfaithful. The least he can do is admit it if it meant nothing. Even though you've been with him for this long, do you really know him?
2006-08-14 19:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, are yo two stable now? There absolutly no chance of him doing anything on the sly? If thats the case
2006-08-14 19:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Nestle Quik 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk 2 him
2006-08-14 19:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by xoxobittersweetxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should try to work things out with him but if that does not work maby try consuling
2006-08-14 19:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know its true? so what if he did. it was before you came along. maybe they both had needs. eww.
2006-08-14 19:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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i'd tease him like hell...porkin' grandma
2006-08-14 19:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋