How do you break up with the person you love?

Question

i love my boyfriend but i barely ever see him! i can't take it no more i need to let him go but i don't know how. i'm afriad i'll hurt his feelings. he should understand tho.

i'm stuck and i don't know what to do! i love my boyfriend i really do but i barely ever see him! i can't take it no more i need to let him go but i don't know how. i'm afriad i'll hurt his feelings. he should understand tho. i tried talkin to him bout it but his phone is always out of minutes. when we do talk we can talk for hours. he tells me he loves me but barely ever come around my house. i told him my mom said it wa ok but he still doesn't come.

Answer 1

being in love is willing to sarifice for each other,willing to tolerate cause love is not always perfect. to make it perfect and happy takes two people undying love, commitment and sincerity...if u truly love him u will be patient but if u think that u want to leave him just because he doesnt visit u then u got to put a lot of things into consideration...see all the pros and cons of ur decision ...set ur priorities why exactly u want to leave him...good luck

Answer 2

This is a hard question to answer, because it doesn't sound like YOU really know what YOU want to do. Alright look, if you love him you wouldn't want to break up with him. Have you tried to make it where you can see him more or talk to him more? Consider that before you break things off. Guys amazingly aren't mind readers (oh how i wish they were) he might think that you are fine with things the way they are. Make it clear to him that you want a change. Try this before you do anything you might regret. If you do decide to break up with him, tell him why, he's more likely to understand why you're breaking up with him if you give him reasons. Good Luck with whatever you decide to do.

Answer 3

Then you don't really love him. Let him go. If you guys are apart by distance, it will be easier for the both of you. If he's not seperated by you by a continent or city, you should be patient. What if he works or really can't see you that often?

Trust me, if you tell him this is bothering you, maybe he can make an effort to spend more time with you. You really need to talk to him though.

Best of luck.

Answer 4

I had the same problem, mine worked all of the time, and I told him how I felt and he kept making promises that he didn't follow thru with...so I left..and he moved on with no problem,
trust me if someone loves you they will make time for you, if not then he's just not that into you...you shouldn't worry about his feelings he's not worried about yours. Of course you should talk to him first, but if you already have and nothing has changed then honey...MOVE ON! I wish you the best.

Answer 5

girl, he doesn't love youall that much becauseif he did he would be seeing u as much as possible right. trust me just tell him u cannot see him anymore !! Yes, you will probably hurt him, but he will get over it in time........ time mends all wounds.. and plus u can do better, You say that u love him..... the thing is, is that he's not loving u back. is he seeing someone else.

Answer 6

i think you should just let him know how you feel about that and see if you can work something out, and if you cant i think he will understand if you break up with him.

Answer 7

well let him know how you feel or whats going on first maybe he'll try to fix i.t

Answer 8

break up and love...hm dont really coexist....if you love him u would endure watever, if you really wanna break up then u really dont love him....choose one and stick with it.

Answer 9

you don't...you solve things

Answer 10

my needs aren't being met.......and they aren't......be honest