Family & Relationships - 14 August 2006

I go to visit him & meet his girlfriend. Keep in mind, my grandma died 2 years ago after 50 years of marriage to my grandpa.
Well, grandpa has all new furniture in his house & she & my grandpa are sleeping in my grandma's room. The girlfriend has access to his bank accounts (it appears from the favorite places that are bookmarked).
So he is talking about marrying this chick. I am not being greedy & I know it shouldn't be any of my business, however if something were to happen to him, & they were married, she would prevail unless he has a will. I don't care about any monitary gain, but I am concerned for my grandpa.
So I guess my ? is how in the heck do we talk him into drawing up a prenup or a will just so those family members (I'm talking about his kids) with "seniority" do not get the short end of the stick of everything my grandma & grandpa worked so hard for all their lives?

2006-08-14 15:06:56 · 34 answers · asked by bigern1977 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 15:06:56 · 53 answers · asked by Betty Sue 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 15:06:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy has been flirting with me for a while now. He has now stood me up twice. I will never give him an opportunity to do this to me again because I will not stand for that.

However, I still run into him all the time at the gym. What should I say when I see him?

Keep in mind, that I never plan on even hanging out with him again because I think standing someone up is not okay. He claimed to be ill both times but never called. That is a load of crap!

2006-08-14 15:05:56 · 22 answers · asked by Attorney 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-08-14 15:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-14 15:05:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there a girl out there that listens to me about what I have to say or think? Or that likes to fall asleep to a good movie like the notebook, or a walk to remember. Or that helps me with my essays for ENG, or that likes to eat ice cream, and kiss at the same time. Will I ever get a g/f/ that has any of these traits? Is there someone out there in God knows where, somewhere I never heard of, that has any of these traits>?

2006-08-14 15:04:47 · 12 answers · asked by EMUmonster 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it okay to ''run from your problems'' when you KNOW for a fact that the problem(s) will never go away? Or should you still not run?

2006-08-14 15:04:31 · 28 answers · asked by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Assume with me for a moment that you have a soul mate. Would you rather meet them, spend one glorious year with them, and then have them taken from you, or never have met them, never knowing such love, and live your entire life with a person who offers you mediocre love?

2006-08-14 15:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by coolnessa8 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am printing up my wedding invite envelopes (I know tacky, only reasonably priced choice concidering our handwriting) and I am inviting a woman from work and her husband. Now, normally I would address it as Mr and Mrs Smith BUT she kept her maiden name, both names are long and won't fit on the envelope without the font being very small. Should I still address it to Mr and Mrs. Smith or should I just use the small font and get both their names in? While waiting for answers I am going to fiddle around with the program and see if I can make it so that they do fit. Thanks for helping me out!!!

2006-08-14 15:03:09 · 6 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7 in Weddings

I'm 18 but i like men over 40

2006-08-14 15:02:15 · 12 answers · asked by short shorts 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there really any honest guys out there. Even if they just want sex cant they be honest about it? Instead of playing all these f*ckin games.

2006-08-14 15:01:49 · 30 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a 17 year old girl, I've been thru alot of this I see young girls writting about on here, I love to give advice and talk and listen, Im goign to college to be a counselor, and it would be great to get some practice, I've always been pretty good at giving adivce especially about teenage stuff, NOTHING is too weird for me, sex, drugs, sex mutilation, ANYTHING, you can IM me at musicfreak182000 on yahoo or email me at musicfreak182000@yahoo.com, anyway yeah someone on my last posted question about giving advice said I was a dirty old man....Im not but I can understand if you dont take my word for it lol, born 1988 thank you very much ;)

2006-08-14 15:01:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright, the guy that I'm talking about is popular, and I'm a non-popular. He thru a pencil at me. He propbably already has a girlfriend, and he doesn't even talk to me. He won't even hear what i have to say, most likely. When he sees me at lunch, he turns his back against me. What do i do?

2006-08-14 15:00:29 · 15 answers · asked by Read n' Write 2 in Singles & Dating

well sorry for that qestion but its just a tantion in my find sorry if any USA girl or boy hurt after c this so s orry plz pzl forgive me

2006-08-14 15:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by nick_william2006 2 in Friends

My gf says I'm too mean and she wants to break up if I can't be nicer to her. Any way to be nicer over night?

2006-08-14 15:00:13 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 14:58:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When you were first together..... How long did it take he/she to tell you they loved you? Also, how long had you dated before the marriage proposal? And did the marriage last or are you divorced. I'm looking forward to these answers. Thank you in advance for sharing this with me. May God bless all of you!

2006-08-14 14:58:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to meat singel women to be my friend i am from washington state?... i am 39 if you wonto you can get a hold of me by my email it is hummingbirdass69@yahoomail.com thanks

2006-08-14 14:58:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.. I have no idea what to do in this situation.. I have a gay friend who I think is absolutely awesome and sweet and nice and cute and ...anyway he is very busy he has 2 jobs and a boyfriend and,if you haven't noticed I have a bit of a crush on,anyway...I want to Invite him to a movie or something, but I don't know how to do it without him thinking I am asking him out! can anybody help??

2006-08-14 14:57:20 · 5 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Friends

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2006-08-14 14:56:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been bleeding down there for three months now, I feel week, tired,depressed, anxiety,and nervousness,ever since i got a birth control shot called depro.I feel as if I,m having a mentalbreakdown. i want this to go away, does any one know how long do the side affect of depo go on? i have a doctors apointment for the bleeding but i havent told him about the other side effects yet.I feel scared. has any one ever been through this?

2006-08-14 14:55:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-14 14:55:01 · 7 answers · asked by verona_k924 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 14:54:58 · 95 answers · asked by laurapiano3 2 in Singles & Dating

I am asking this in singles, in hopes to attract single moms/dads who would most likely know the going rates!

2006-08-14 14:54:50 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

She also told me in no uncertain terms to break up with my GF. I think she also wanted me to attend her grandmother's funeral, but I never found out when or where. (It may not have happened yet, I have no way to be sure.)

2006-08-14 14:54:28 · 10 answers · asked by TheSkeptic 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 14:52:31 · 6 answers · asked by leo girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 14:50:40 · 11 answers · asked by oxarielxo 1 in Singles & Dating

I walked in on my girl friend changing and we had only been together for three days and I just stood there for like 30 she still doesn't know but now every timee I see her I picture her naked.

2006-08-14 14:50:39 · 10 answers · asked by Spencer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 14:49:37 · 14 answers · asked by foreverlintasia 1 in Friends