2006-08-14 15:06:56 · 53 answers · asked by Betty Sue 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do NOT call him!!! If he can't get his **** together to ask you out on a date on the first date, he will continue to flake. Let him work for you, girl! You're worth it! And just think how much better you'll feel when he finally gets around to asking you out. Plus, you don't want to seem like a desperate nag.
2006-08-14 15:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by dSweetBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call him, but ask him next time you see him: "What happened, I didn't hear from you about last night and I got worried...is everything OK?"
Many advantages here. You don't look needy, you come across as caring and mature, you keep open the possibility of another date and, most important, you find out why he didn't call you. Doing it in person is a good touch, you look strong. No downside, only upside.
2006-08-14 15:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
If he can't remember to call or come by...you should also make it a point to forget about him...and furthermore, don't sit around sulking, now that you are dressed up...go to your favorite hangout, have some appetizers, maybe a nice drink, bring a book or something to pass the time in case you don't feel like talking to anyone...and feel positive about yourself.
You were not "made" to wait for a man.
Don't sit around, Go out there!
2006-08-14 15:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by schnikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you REALLY want to go on the date!!! Otherwise wait for him to call. If you do decide to call, try not to mention the date. Just say that you called to make sure he was ok, because you thought he said he was gonna call you and he didn't. This leaves it open for him to explain why he didn't call.
2006-08-14 15:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by golddiggalova 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him...if he does not call you tonight. You can complain tomorrow if and when he calls. If he does not call write him off and you will be better off without him. If he calls you and has a half way ok story give him one more shot then cut him loose if he messes up again.
2006-08-14 15:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys didn't set a time, then yea give him a call. Say something like You didn't say when & are you really wanting to go or were you just messing around? Good luck.
2006-08-14 15:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY want to go-then yes call him. Otherwise make some other plans and if he finally calls, tell him you waited long enough and he is rude to waste your time.
2006-08-14 15:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously panic too much. All of your previous questions are about guys not calling. You should either be patient and wait for him to call or realize that "He's just not THAT into you!!" (jerk)
2006-08-15 01:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by reesie02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go on the date then yes duh
He maight be asking exactly the same question and you would lose out.
2006-08-14 15:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by private 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to go out with somebody that is so inconsiderate? If so then go ahead, call away.
2006-08-14 15:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋