Family & Relationships - 12 August 2006

I say they are too exspensive, and i like to treat myself. They get mad as hell wit me, I'm not saying i dont want any, just not now. Then they always say it doesnt bother me i can still do the things i want, I say hell no, kids take away from something i used this example, If i have a girl friend and we dont have kids we dont need a two bedroom apartment, but if we do have a kid we would need two. There are some costs that people don't realize like, if its me and her we go out to eat its 60, with a kid its 80 dollars, she could never admit that kids take extra money from you, even if you realize it or not. Then another women said she alright because she gets child support, i explained to her what if you did not get it, you wouldn't be able to keep your lights on, so how can kids not effect you financially

2006-08-12 04:21:01 · 9 answers · asked by raradaone 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so look, my boyfriend proposed to me just a day ago I told him I would think about it because I told him that I saw what he did when he brought two girls into our apartment having threesomes. He confessed that he was bi sexual. I've never been with a guy that isn't 100% straight. His porn obssession is a little cooky and I'm not ready to have a irresposible father when we have kids later on in life. I really love him even though we've only dated for three months. I feel like we have a bonded connection but I'm not sure yet. I dont know whether marrige is what should happen. Is it possible that we stay boyfriend and girlfriend a little longer?

2006-08-12 04:20:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If so did u like it for the first week was it bad or was it good did u find somebody u liked on the first week or u found out that somebody liked u or whateva!!!!!!!

2006-08-12 04:18:26 · 7 answers · asked by Tee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-12 04:18:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one day back in 1977, you told me you were pregnant, the next day you were gone. We were in a job corp center in Texas. your initials were cc, you were from somewhere in New Jersey, I was from Texas, I've always wondered if you were being truthful, several of your friends said you were lying and had done that before with another guy, anybody out there might think you know her or of her?

2006-08-12 04:17:32 · 3 answers · asked by ntarldr 1 in Family

I have three teenage sons and there friends are always razin them about there mom being hot. It drives my sons crazy! What can I do about it,start wearing no makeup and only sweats?

2006-08-12 04:17:31 · 15 answers · asked by momof5 1 in Family

It's hilarious! You spend your entire lives on here and still haven't worked out how easily you get troll3d, you rise to the bait EVERY TIME! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!

2006-08-12 04:17:20 · 12 answers · asked by NIKOS T 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi! I have been with a guy for over a year, I started seeing him when I was 17 and he was 50. He is mean to me and won't let me talk to other guys, go out without him, he calls me names and doesn't work only lives off of me. He gets social assistance. We share an apartment and all the furniture is bought and paid for by me. He pushes me but has stopped really hurting me the past few months. I want out of the relationship but have a puppy and all my heavy furniture that I cant leave and I cant afford an apartment. I wont stay at the shelter because it will not coincide with my job and I hate it. So I called the cops and they didn't think I should press charges because I have no bruises. So he left for the day but is able to come back whenever he wants. As*hole! I want to lock him out forever but the lease is in both our names. WHAT AM I GOING TO DO?

2006-08-12 04:16:56 · 27 answers · asked by catanomicsunset 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I go into a shop and the person working remembers me and asks me how my day was and other questions all of the time and remembers what I like and when he is working with others always makes a point to talk to me and give me attention do you think he is trying to be professional or that he may be interested? Also he is always putting effort into what he serves me and is telling me personal information....what do you think?

2006-08-12 04:16:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone has a number (ya know, the number of people that you have slept with). So, my question to you is:

What do you consider a high, average or low number for someone in their late-20's?

I would say 1-5 is a low number, and over 20 a high. But I am curious to know what everyone else thinks.

2006-08-12 04:16:31 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

It feels like im being mean but am tired of children catching lice and its getting expensive..........dont want to hurt thier friends feelings or anger their parents.

2006-08-12 04:16:30 · 17 answers · asked by darkvale 3 in Family

2006-08-12 04:15:52 · 5 answers · asked by kenny4real 1 in Family

I have two stepkids who are adult age 43 and 40,I am 46y/o male,My problem is that my wife and I are trying write a will.We own a small business that her late husband and her started in 1978.We also own a house in the same small town,and a shop where I keep my toys.I am tryng to make things fair because as you see I am about the same age as them and they think that when thier mother dies I should leave the house that we have shared for 18 years and business too.We live in a community property state.We have done alot for her children financially and allowed her daughter to live here for 12 years.I think that when my wife dies that I should remain in the house and run the business as usual.What do you think?The original monies for the house and businees came from thier dad's parents but I have turned the ship around(It was in debt pretty badly when I took over paying the bills18 years ago.

2006-08-12 04:15:43 · 2 answers · asked by Tom B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-12 04:14:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know if you are conscious about this. I just want to know if any of you agree with them, or if you hate them back, or if you do something about it. Thank you.

2006-08-12 04:13:14 · 9 answers · asked by LilianaB 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wish i could speak without hesitation but do not know wer to start wth as a result i do not speak much,even if i do start with a topic i have to think as to how to switch to another topis i know its a natural ability that one should have to learn by themself .how does one over come this , where am i lacking,whats the best method on self improvement. genrally I crack jokes a lot but miss out on proper communication skills,though people get friendly fast i cant give them much time as i cant sit and talk to them like parrot do i read books more or need something to improve myself

2006-08-12 04:13:10 · 10 answers · asked by trevor c 1 in Friends

I am an 18 year old student, I attend the LSE. So I am probably far more intelligent than all of you losers.

But, I have a confession to make nonetheless.

Sometimes when I watch programmes about WW2 on the History Channel I secretly wish the Germans had won.

2006-08-12 04:13:03 · 21 answers · asked by NIKOS T 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy from school last year. i have his e-mail but he hasn't replied to my 3 e-mails. i even got my friend to e-mail him and explain it. help!!!

2006-08-12 04:12:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many americans can stay married the ones that are rooted here ???? none that is what i thought ,,, for one thing some of u watch too much tv and try to live other people lives and not your own . And the food they sale here full of bacteria that messes up the mind- u people are terrible and have the nerve to talk about us u could never stand up to our level . american woman cant hold a man ,, the men are having sex with other men all of u are retarded ..... this country sucks anyway we will build our country off yours and go home we dont care we love each other and we will stick together if it takes using one u suckkers .... and if u catch any of us marring u its not long , we love our selfs and our family... now what ??

2006-08-12 04:12:20 · 17 answers · asked by guesser 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy and we spent a weekend together at a hotel. We have discussed our HIV status and decided that condom would not be used every time. Two days after the weekend I felt sore in vaginal area and rushed to the doctor, who diagnosed a yeastlike infection. I got medication and a prescription for him. I invited him over and within the visit I informed him of the happenings. This was very embarrassing as it was our first encounter. I even took the liberty of doing another HIV test to show I was free.

He hasnt spoken to me in two days. I dont know what to think. SHould I have treated myself secretly? did I do the right thing? Would you change your mind? Why hasnt he called?

2006-08-12 04:12:13 · 9 answers · asked by rizzio 1 in Singles & Dating

How often do women think about it sex? Do you think about it with one guy or just any guy Men have an ensatiable desire to procreate. Do women? After all women are human too? aren't you?

2006-08-12 04:11:22 · 10 answers · asked by bigblock_475_hp d 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-12 04:10:43 · 22 answers · asked by liam6856 1 in Weddings

is it realistic to fall in love with a 22 year old? we get a long so well.....but I don't want to fool myself into believing it could be something more. How many 22 year olds are ready to settle?

2006-08-12 04:09:38 · 29 answers · asked by michelleleestonge 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-12 04:09:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

18yr old son has no clue what so ever on how to be a man/adult and how to be on his own. He has no clue about what the real world is like out there. He has been taught and told about it all but fails to get the picture.

2006-08-12 04:09:29 · 14 answers · asked by michele k 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anyone write to female inmates?

I found a site, http://www.cowtowninfo.com/personals/jai... that lists personals ads from female inmates along with their mailing addresses. I'm wondering if this is a scam or if these are real people. Some of the ads read as though they are truly nice women who have made wrong choices along the way, but deep down they are more victim of circumstances (such as drug abuse) than bad people.

Has anyone written to any of these ladies? What has been your experience? Are they after more than friendship?

2006-08-12 04:09:02 · 7 answers · asked by Bo D 1 in Friends

Personally i can judge if i want to be friends with anybody in the first 10 mins of meeting them. Also when i m in a particular relationship i expect diff. things in one relationships rather than diff. people with just one thing. ( i.e. companionship, intimacy etc.) Coz the reason chatting and dating sites are getting popular is our inherent need for quantity and not quality in life. I would love to deal with person i am seeing right now and the one i like bcoz, i wud'nt have chosen him/her if i had'nt thought we had a chance to make it work for a lifetime. P.S. I have had my share of friendships / relationships and most have fittered off not due to lack of time and commitment but bcoz of major fallouts / disappointment in the reasons we hit it off in the first place. The ones which lasted were the ones wherein there was a 10% chance of seeing it through and a 90% chance that it wouldnt see a cycle of 2 seasons. i dont see a need for keep making friends unlike some ppl who keep lookin

2006-08-12 04:08:48 · 9 answers · asked by Kavita A 1 in Friends

plz... provide me tips bcoz i am undergoing social phobia under social suitations...

2006-08-12 04:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok am a gurl and i am bisexual...and so is my bestfriend, and I have feelings for her how do I tell her???

2006-08-12 04:07:47 · 10 answers · asked by sweetblue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

maybe get maried with a philipina, she is smart and cute and sexy and comes form a avverage family.
meaning they are ok, but could do a lot better.
how do u know when she loves u for real and not just for money, she askt me for money twice this year.
at the moment im not living in her place but oveseas

2006-08-12 04:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce