I wish i could speak without hesitation but do not know wer to start wth as a result i do not speak much,even if i do start with a topic i have to think as to how to switch to another topis i know its a natural ability that one should have to learn by themself .how does one over come this , where am i lacking,whats the best method on self improvement. genrally I crack jokes a lot but miss out on proper communication skills,though people get friendly fast i cant give them much time as i cant sit and talk to them like parrot do i read books more or need something to improve myself
2006-08-12
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trevor c
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V get speechless due to loss of words, when highly impressed by others, or by inability to put our point proprly. It happens with many at times & to overcome it properly, one needs to improve upon their vocabulary, a lot of reading, & communicate with everyone confidently. If possible, attend public speaking classes.
2006-08-12 05:04:16
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answered by JD 4
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I'm kinda that way too. When I first met my friend in Science, on the 2nd day of school last year, I was so shy that I hardly said a word. It took me awhile to just relax and stuff. I would say, "Hi" and ask her stuff like, "How was your summer" and school stuff like, "What is your next class?" or "Who do you have for math?" In the end, that girl I was shy in front of became my friend and we had a LOT of laughs in Science.
So my advice for you is just to relax and ask questions like I did. Say you're talking about summer to somebody and then you want to talk about sports, you would say something like, "So do you like to spend some time outside and play sports?" It's pretty easy and its alright to go from one topic to a topic that has nothing to do with the other one. It's random, but its OK.
Practice overcoming shyness by trying to meet new people or trying a new thing everyday. Maybe join a club or group or something like that to get to meet more people. I hope I helped.
2006-08-12 04:25:58
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answered by sweetdollツ 7
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Usually when you feel tension then you will become speechless.
Try to think positively that you know everything so that you willnot skip the topics. And you try to talk confidently so that you can continuesly talk and will not give any break.
2006-08-18 23:37:58
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answered by NANI 3
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2016-10-01 23:51:43
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answered by Anonymous
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this is all abt confidence man.build up that though joining some personality development courses and im sure u will be very successful
2006-08-12 06:58:37
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answered by pavan 1
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try not to be nervous then it comes out naturally and gives people a good impression on your personality.
(hope that helps)
2006-08-12 04:16:36
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answered by Anonymous
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its ok don't worry u'll improve urself one day with time passing on
2006-08-17 12:14:58
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answered by shrish15 1
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a common type of problem not any answer is satisfactory i think
2006-08-17 18:20:14
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answered by Anonymous
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i dunno???u till me.....i mean u obviously know your problem than just find it in u and solve it by yourself.
hope i helped???
2006-08-18 22:01:14
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answered by Sara *Life is so unlike theory* 5
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We have nothing to say.
2006-08-18 03:49:59
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answered by SANCHO PANZA 2
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