maybe get maried with a philipina, she is smart and cute and sexy and comes form a avverage family.
meaning they are ok, but could do a lot better.
how do u know when she loves u for real and not just for money, she askt me for money twice this year.
at the moment im not living in her place but oveseas
2006-08-12 04:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They usually marry foreigner for financial security. They would love it if you can help buy her parents a house....most of them have flimsy bamboo stilt houses and would like to own better concrete/brick homes.
It's not good for a girl to ask her boyfriend for money. They should not feel they are entitled to it.
If you want to marry her, tell her in advance how much you will give her monthly (if she's not working) to avoid her asking you for indeterminate amounts of money at random. When you are dating her, give her the impression that you will be thrifty with your money.
2006-08-12 07:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she always wants you to spend money on her would be a sign. You said she asked you for money twice, people don't usually ask someone they are dating for money . Does she like to just spend time with you? I guess you have to think about your relationship and what part money has seemed to play in it for her. Also if you are thinking about marriage, talk about how you both feel about different situations in life, children, where to live, ect. That might help you too.
Good luck.
2006-08-12 11:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her on a few cheap dates. Instead of a nice restaruant go to the equivalent of a MacDonald's for a couple of weeks. Instead of first run movies, stay at home and watch some old videos, not dvds, videos. Drink cheap wine or beer, not the good stuff you use to impress her, cheap. If she starts to complain, you know it is not love.
2006-08-12 11:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by thebushman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your married it cost money when dateing as well a real man doesnt wait till a woman ask for money he just gives it to her and when he knows she does not have it more so ,gold diggers ask men for money every month those men are usually sugar daddys if you do not fall into a sugar daddy catagory then why do you think she is with you? i would say twice in one year is not bad at all unless your cheep not to stereo type put all cheep men always want broke asian woman to kiss there butt what a life big deal they get a green card.
2006-08-12 11:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by nicole l 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur father had suddenly cut u off his will & just to make sure that she is not after ur nationality tell make something up about the law won't give her the same passport as u for this reason or that
here in Saudi Arabis a lot of non Saudi girls marry for this reason & that is the way one relative of mine found out that this philipino girl was only after the Saudi nationality
good luck
2006-08-12 11:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Helen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A realization that I have come to is this: They are ALL after your money. Women have NOTHING to offer a man but sex while men have sex and money. Sex gives them multiple orgasms (we were cheated) and the money pays for their existence. They are ALL interested in you for your money. If you had no money, she would not marry you.
So, accept it and marry her if she is the one woman on the planet that you don't want to choke. They are ALL the same and ALL you can hope for is to find one that doesn't make you want to commit homicide.
2006-08-12 11:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by evilposterchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for $$$$ in rtn & wait for her response.Tell her U are broke & needed her help this once.If she flares up or shows different kind of treatment then U shd know the next step.Gd Luck.
2006-08-12 11:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by me_imah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be both!! and she can use you to bring her whole family to USA too! If you have doubts, something must trigger the doubt, so you already have the answer, so I think you just need a confirmation. Best wishes!
2006-08-12 11:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Antoine a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be a really nice girl-but I don't think that a girl should ask a guy for money before marriage-then sometimes it becomes necessary!!!! You will have to make this decision for your self-GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-08-12 11:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your worry is because you dont trust .you must address this first .trust is something you choosto do being trust worthy is the responce to your trust .i recomend you trust her with small things and see if she is trust worthy and then build on that .as for her asking for money everyone needs a hand once in a while .
2006-08-12 11:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋