MY husband wants me to spank him not playfully but dominatingly. I am not sure how I feel about donig this. I have tried but I don't want to hurt him. He says I'm not and that love is painful. We have only fought mildly in our relationship and very scarcely. He says it's like an absolution of sin. He said that he loves me very much. Because we hardly ever fight and that he does not desire to fight with me, he feels that by me doing this to him he will "feel forgiven for letting me down in life" . I told him that he does not nor has not ever let me down. He explained that we are all let down by something or another, and that he wasn't nor was I the exact person we thought we would love, that being said, we are all let down. He feels that this absolution will remove a huge weight ,that he carries with him at all times,to be the best person he can be in life for me . Should I do this for him ? What do I do about not wanting to hurt him? Anyone with experience in this matter please respond
2006-08-08
12:35:12
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